my exgirlfriend broke up with me a week ago and i know it was hard for her cause she was crying alot and saying its hard for her cause im like her bestfriend.i didnt do niothing wrong it just that shes 28 and feels she getting old and wants alot out of life.i have a job and make ok money but i miss her .I just took her to hawaii before the break up and we had a great time what should i do ?weve been together 3 years.
2006-06-25 10:18:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe. She can love you and want to be with you but realizes that you aren't the ONE for her. Even if you feel that she is the one for you. To make a relationship work, each person has to have equal feelings and it can't be one sided. If its meant to be, then she will call for you to come back, if you aren't the one, then she won't call. First loves are hard to get over when it ends and you won't ever forget her or the feelings you have for her and she might think the same about you. Just give it time.
2006-06-25 10:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her issue was an age thing although not a good enough reason for me to call it quits and if this is truly the only reason I would try and repair that. although to do that you must know what about her age and being with you is preventing her from getting out of life what she is looking for. This is the only thing you have to work with. find out what she feels she is missing and show her you are willing to fix it or help her fix it.
But if your just wanting to sit and wait I am saying your wasting your time. but keep in mind that she may have used her age as an excuse and her issues could be something you may not want to find out.
There are many reason that usually are hidden behind a break up they never are seen so do not be too surprised if you find out that age really wasn't the problem but she used it to spare your feelings.
2006-06-25 10:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look my friend! Why don't you tell her that you could do many things together! Give her freedom if this is what she lacks of (although I don't believe so)! I think that there's high possibility that she'll regret for breaking up with you but I wouldn't expect it too soon... Hope that you will be together again! Be patient and show her respect (even if you think that her decisions are a bit silly!).
2006-06-25 10:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by maria d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are better off as friends. If she says you're best friends maybe it's because it's wierd to date your best friend because you know them so well. But it sounds like maybe she's afraid of getting hurt. Find her, tell her you would never hurt her and ask what you have to do to get her back. If she has any feelings for you still, she'll come back.
2006-06-25 10:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was real she wouldn't have broke it off but it seems she was insecure about herself and probably thought u were to good 4 her. but u call her and see how she's doing and just make it a friendly relationship might help.
2006-06-25 10:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up? Did she want to get married and you are just "chilling"
Just forget about her and try to find another who's head is where yours is at this point in time
2006-06-25 10:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From looking at the other questions you've posted, it's obvious that you're obsessed with this girl. Chicks don't dig that. Give it up. Forget about her. It's obvious that you have "one-itis".
2006-06-25 10:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why don't you call her? Or better yet send her an e-mail.
Just asking her if she's okay. Don't push anything....just ask her if she's okay. I don't think she really wanted to end it. She probably thinks about you all the time. She's just trying to 'detox' herself.
2006-06-25 10:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it depends y u broke up though
2006-06-25 10:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you really love each other go get her back : )
2006-06-25 10:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Ashley*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋