If my bf didnt love me anymore i wouldnt mind cause i love him too much and i wouldnt mind if he did leave me as long as he is happy and ok i will be ok, though i dont think i could love anyone esle. is this true love or stupid?
2006-06-25 10:15:14 · 30 answers · asked by *Shruti* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-07 09:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by El Mariachi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt the exactly the same about a boyfriend. He dumped me and i was sad for a while but i knew I'd be ok. We don't speak now, nothing nasty we just cut all ties. I still hear about him through mutual friends and I'm happy when i hear that something good has happened to him. I loved him and he was a good boyfriend, I bare no resentment but i don't love him anymore.
You have to move on when a relationship ends for your own sake, time helps, but you may never stop caring. So in answer to your question is yes, it's true love. Just remember true love does not always last forever.
Good Luck, I hope it does last forever in your case.
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2006-06-25 18:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love
2006-06-25 17:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ice G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, sounds more like stubbornness. I mean, if he left you, that's that. You might need to accept it and move on. Yeah if he's happy gone then so be it, but eventually you'd have to close that door. There's no use to having feelings for a man who's gone and has been gone for a long time, perhaps he'll find someone new and you'll have to accept that, so why not accept things now and make thing easier for you. I know they won't be easy now, but someday they will be and you will find someone new.
Good luck, stay strong.
2006-06-25 17:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love no doubt - totally with you -I am in love with a wonderful lady - I would be happy if she could find someone else because she deserves better than i can give her at the moment
2006-07-08 14:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until later. We often think we are in love when in reality it's just lust. As the old saying goes, you never know what you have had until you have lost it.......
Don't forget love make us do stupid things and sometimes it's ok to be a little stupid
2006-07-06 21:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is about relationships.. some work out and some don't ,your not stupid all is experience take the good things and learn from the bad, at the end of the day ask your self what are you looking for in love ? maybe they are not looking for the same things you are and remember time is the greatest healer
2006-06-26 05:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by lloydpaul2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting others happiness before your own is very noble, and is most definately not stupid.
If there were more people like you in the world, I'm sure it would be a much nicer place.
2006-07-09 11:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by robert d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is good true love. And trust me you will love again if it ever ends. The only thing with that is that if things do go a bit pear shaped fight for your man, that is one thing I never did and I lost the man of my dreams.
2006-07-09 14:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by judi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something verging on obsession to me...I hope that you can find someone that loves you back as much as you are feeling love now.
2006-07-03 19:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love!!!!!
2006-07-07 11:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by mizzi204 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋