my boyfriend was gonna ask out my friend before he even met me. he told her that he liked me more though. she got jealous after finding this out, ever since she found out that we were dating she has been trying to break us up. she told me that he didnt respect me, and that after he graduates he is just gonna break my heart,and that he doesnt love me, she even told me that he kissed her. but he isnt like that. he goes to church and tells me that he loves me all the time and that he would never cheat on me with anybody, we have been together for 4 months and he has not lied to me once. i dont know what to do all my other friends say that i should quit being her friend. what should i do?
2006-06-25 10:12:57 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesnt sound much like a friend to me
2006-06-25 10:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If she really doesn't want you two to go out then sit and think about what's more important: your friend or your boyfriend. If you can look ahead 10 years and see your boyfriend, stick with him. She'll get over it and if she doesn't, she wasn't a very good friend in the first place if she let a guy ruin your guy's friendship.
2006-06-25 10:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she respects you and wants to be your friend that she will stop talking about him and bringing him up to you. Tell her that you know how he is and what he does. Tell her that if she cannot stop or cannot hold back how she feels then it may be best to break off the friendship for a while. She will realize that she needs you as a friend and apologize.
2006-06-25 10:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Correl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous of you because she wants him too. Just forget her because a true friend always sticks with her friend. You're young and you can make lots of other friends.
2006-06-25 10:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't see that she is really your friend anyway, and with friends like her who needs enemies. Stay away from her hon, even if you and your current bf doesnt work out who would want a friend like that?
2006-06-25 10:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem like a very good friend!
Quit being around her.
2006-06-25 10:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_stuff35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you should quit being her frend... i mean a reall frend wouldnt get jealous, she would understand
2006-06-25 10:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt your friend, so if you stop talking to her, you havent lost jack
2006-06-25 10:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be her friend, she isn't yours...a true friend would stick by you no matter what;)
2006-06-25 10:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by BuffyFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋