i started dating this guy that was 17 when i was 14 now i am 15 and he is 18. is he too old for me or is this ok?
2006-06-25 09:57:56 · 39 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 years is a very short amount of time and girls are frequently more mature that boys anyway. He is definatley not too old for you....you are both teenagers and probably have a lot in common...I can;'t always tell the differnece between an 18 yearold and a 15 year old.
good luck in your relationship
2006-06-25 10:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, the rule is that the most successful relationships for people between 16 and 45 occur when the woman/girl's age is 1/2 the man's age plus 7 years. So, if he is 18, his best chances for success are with a girl who is 18/2=9 plus 7, or 16 years old. Close enough in your case. Enjoy it while you can because he's going to end up being TOO YOUNG for you in a few years according to the formula. When you're 21, the best age for you to date will be 28.
2006-06-25 10:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by brian_hahn_32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is not bad at all. I am 14 and all of my boyfriends have been 16-17-18! I like the more mature kind of guys. I can't stand the immature ones. You are probably the same way. lol! But No it ain't bad at all.
2006-06-25 10:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by jennacharnele_johnson2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's O.K. the age difference is not that much.
But depending on what state you live in it could be statutory rape once someone it 18 they are consider a legal adult and you at 15 would be consider a minor and not old enough to make your own decisions.And if you had parents that didn't like him then you would have a problem.
2006-06-25 10:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally yes hold on until you are 18 before any serious involvement. Statuatory rape laws are real. It only requires someone displeased with your relationship filing a complaint with the authorities, Be Wise
2006-06-25 10:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by DrLapaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my point of view don't hurry for relationship .you need earn experience ..i get out with a girl when i be 22 years old ..she was on 14,5 ...we had according relation sentimental on equal level.. never important nothing for an age.keep to worth now im 30 years old .im start dating with ladies from every age (17-65 )
metallica what says
Life it seems fade away,drifting further everyday,getting lost within myself,nothing matters no one else ...
that i mean age is unlimited
2006-06-25 10:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by foryou2002tr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think he's too old for you, besides its a illegal he's dating a minor and yes like some of the other people said its statutoray rape, but its only statutoray rape if sex is involved if not then its just illegal.
2006-06-25 10:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Theresa E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to old legally being 18 means you are an adult so since your 15 that would mean he is dating a minor.
2006-06-25 10:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ice G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a little old but it's not a major age difference. I say it's ok as long as u two really love each other.
2006-06-25 09:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK, but don't have sex until you are married! Please please please please please wait! It is worth it. Don't be in a hurry to grow up too fast. If you like him and grow to love him, that's great. Don't be scared just because of the age difference, but don't be tied down, either. That's very similar to the age difference between me and my husband. I was 15 and he was 17 when we first started dating. We grew up together and got married at 20 and 22. It can be a great thing, but never, ever be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do.
2006-06-25 10:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋