I am a 27 seperated woman, and it just disgusts me to know that there are so many people out there who can't have children; including me. The persons who can have children molest, kidnapp, rape, beat, abandon, and kill them. Not saying that all people do this of course, because it's the majority of humans that are at their best at parenthood. It just seems so unfair.
2006-06-25 09:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by h_o_tpants 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i feel your pain.. Its sad how humans mistreat humans. I guess a normal human being would react with hatred and discgust towards those types of people.
However maybe you can focus any of your energy toward adopting a child...There are so many that are looking for a mommy just like you...
2006-07-05 05:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Deu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is quite a heavy question. If it bothers you that much why do you not take some action? Instead of sitting on the sidelines and complaining and talking about how unfair it is, why not join some oranizations that are for those of who have been molested, kidnapped, etc. Be a big sister/brother, join a team of volunteers at care center for small children, work as a social services counseller, etc. So many options other than complaining about it. Sad that you cannot have children but it should not be a reason to do nothing about something you seem to care so much about.
2006-07-04 11:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by cute_smartass05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you try to get proactive and use your love of children to help disadvantaged children get a better start in life.
Since you're so young and without a family, you might consider going to Africa to work in an orphanage for some of the 21 million AIDS orphans in the world. You would be a volunteer and your expenses would be paid for.
Or, if you aren't ready to pack up the rest of your life for Africa, you do something closer to home after work. You volunteer with the Big Sister's Association, or the Boys and Girls Clubs as a tutor.
Or maybe, if you have an extra room and a big heart, you become a foster mother and model patience, kindness and compassion for a child who is coming from a bad place while their own parents learn parenting skills or otherwise try to get their life in order.
In the face of all things bad, you put love out and in your own way, you try to do more good than harm.
2006-07-06 03:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by baggyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes me sick when I hear about these things. I have a baby boy and honestly I would kill anyone who tried to do any of these things to him or the next baby we are planning for. Too many people are not being careful using the excuse that "it doesn't feel good" or "birth control pills make me fat" those are pretty sad reasons for not preventing an unplanned or worse yet an unwanted pregnancy if you ask me. If you don't want children take steps to avoid it, if you can't look after yourself then you most likely can't look after a child of any age, if you can't aford a child PLEASE DON'T HAVE THEM!! My husband and I live below the poverty line, pretty far below and still our son is not lacking in any way. He may wear hand-me-downs from his older cousin, but none of his clothes are falling apart, he has shoes, he is fed proper healthy meals everyday, I never let the milk run out, he has his own room and his own bed. We may not have a lot of money but I make sure that the bills are paid and no one goes hungry in this house, including our 2 family cats and 2 fish. I don't get outside help and I don't visit the food bank even now when we are scraping to next week.
2006-06-25 17:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can't physically have a child doesn't mean that you can't ever impact a child or help them. There are many ways to get involved and help others and influence children. Stop dwelling on the bad people out there and get on with your life and see where your services can be of use! Go help and serve others!
2006-06-25 17:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes me sick to hear of things being done to a child. I was that child. I had my first one at 16 and another at 18 and they are my life! If it was not for my kids I would not be here right now. We live in a world full of sick people and I would like to see everyone of those people punished for what they do to their children or other peoples. You can always help make the world a better place for the kids though. Put your head togeather and think about it.
2006-06-25 18:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by little_devil_rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with sadness of course. i am sorry that you cant have children. i wish you could. and i agree its not fair that you would be a wonderful parent, yet beautiful children are born into such awful circumstances. it is heartwrenching! the only way to react is with hope and love for each child who has the opportunity to escape such wretched circumstances. it makes me almost cry to think about the travesties, but besides adopting, educating or something theres not much to do besides hope.
2006-07-09 02:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by lorieu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is NOT fair. It isn't supposed to be.
In my case, I was born perfectly able to have children, but was forced to spend my entire reproductive life shelling out money for birth control pills, condoms, IUDs, and so on just to *avoid* pregnancy!
2006-06-25 17:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free Will
2006-07-04 00:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I think poeple who hurt children shoul be put to death. Or at least an eye for an eye.
2006-06-25 17:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋