My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for over a year now, and we've had very few problems.... apart from behind my back he goes into chatrooms, gets talking to girls, adds them to MSN and flirts. He's even asked them to go onto webcam to see them naked, and exchanges half naked photos with them. Everytime I've found out he says he's sorry but then reoffends. I'm sick of this, and want to know what to do and how to express my anger and obviously feelings so betrayal and upset.
2006-06-25 09:46:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. who is he to make youfeel like that? seriously the guy is just an attention seeker who will never be happy with he has. Get someone who loves you as much as you deserve.
2006-06-25 09:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Delgado 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can not possibly think of your feelings!
Why dont you give him a taste of his own medicine, get into the chat roos yourself and do a bit of flirting and see how he likes it,
If he does not mind you in the chat rooms get rid of him he his bad news!
But my guess is he will not like you in there and stop himself!
Good luck hope things work out for you.
2006-06-25 17:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah !!! bless him...poor little thing
no really..I have done this myself b4 and been caught, but to me it really did mean nothing, but I can understand that fact it hurts you. I think the best way forward is...without shouting, getting upset or accusing.....to tell your b/f how really upsetting it is for you, how degrading and usless and worthless as a g/f it makes you feel and please to not do it any more. And when he says sorry and he wont do it again, you then tell him you want all his passwords and user names and you will be regularly checking the computer, until such a time you can trust him....He prob will shout and swear and stuff but that's only because he has been found out again.....whatever you do you MUST NOT retaliate by shouting and swearing back...Be calm at all times and you will win this argument.
If all this fails then I am afraid it is 'asta la vista baby'..because it it obvious he has no respect for your feelings...
Good luck
2006-06-25 17:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by mark j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend did that, and i threatened him and kicked him out. He then realised what an asshole he was and has done it since. I check his msn and emails now as well just to make sure. Maybe you could scare him into stopping it, if he really loves you he would stop. Good luck.
2006-06-25 17:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Luz_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him sweet don;t wast your time - find a real man that doesn't need cheap thrills and virtual ones at that. Aim low and you get low. Go out and be with friends and people who make you happy and feel good about yourself.
2006-06-25 17:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by MSMORTGAGE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and let me tell you truth. what this guy is doing means nothing believe me. he can flirt online and still has feeling for you. maybe he want to practice so he can be good in flirting that's all. or want to waste time.
anyway i will recommend for every boy and girl friend to never have sex except with marriage.
2006-06-25 16:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is history...
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he aint being friendly he is really going for it and thats out of order.
Give him a taste of his own medicine... Flirt with guys in front of him
2006-06-25 16:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he is not worthy to have you as his girlfriend.
But before you dump him give him a good hard kick where it hurts that should do the trick!
Good luck
2006-06-25 16:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by MoJoJoJo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him! if u stay with him and marry him, i guarantee u he will cheat on u. then he will say he is sorry, and then do it again. dump him now! he is not ready for a one on one relationship. u can do better. dont let him keep hurting u like this.
2006-06-25 21:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply tell him how u feel! hes a guy so therefore a dumb *** and doesnt understand it upseting u as technically hes not doing anything wrong, tell him and if he cares about u he wouldnt do it, get him into line be forceful, or show him he can do it with u!
2006-06-25 16:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by roundtree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋