2006-06-25 09:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by poppyfields 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him about it frankly, and also behave accordingly.Don't cheapen yourself in front of the man, maintain you dignity, Remember straight forwardness and honesty are traits that are respected by most men, because those are the currencies they have to deal with practically very minute of their working lives.
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2006-06-26 05:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Things seemed to have changed in today's times but even with that my feelings are the same. It is the Guy that should show his respect and you should be made to feel like the most special person in the world. Guys, take the initiative and learn that you should make her feel special not the other way around. The little things you do, flowers, compliments, etc .. shows her that you consider her the most special person there is. Infatuation is immediate but Love develops over time. My opinion is if a girl has to impress a guy or make a guy feel special instead of the other way around then it's time for her to realize that there are many more guys in the world that will treat her the way she should be treated and in the long run she will be much happier to find one of those guys than some bum that doesn't feel a good woman is worth spoiling.
2006-06-25 16:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by alagk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I don't respect bullies or nasties, those who only drink or are bitchy, or like gangs and respect where thats based on hardness.
Any decent guy should respect you even if you stripped off in front of him.
Sex is affection.
Jerks who would disrespect you for being sexaul would want to control you or are jerks.
You can sleep with someoen the first night if its what you both want and grow old togther or not.
I would like somoen who was sexaully open... Its how she treats others that gains respect plus if she can kick ***.
Think Jessia Alba Characters, fiesty, cheeky, sneaky, affectionate, protective, tough, sexy etc.
GUYS ARE STUPID THEY DONT GET HINTS OR SIGNS.
BUT they do need to know whats going on.
if you want to get sexaul with a guy play ie play wrestle (to win), strip poker, winner says do rule games.
Move on the guy most will be shy
Engineer ways to get touchy.
You could get his attention by engineering a way for him to see you undress where he thinks you don't know he is peaking.
Then later casually ask if he enjoyed the view when he was watching you (ideally when he is drinking) by surprise and watch him choke or deny it...Then have a laugh about it.
Go to the cinema and you put your arm arround him and feel his breast then kiss him. then as been a nughty girl you have to let him...
Shows you have a sense of humour and confident.
Likewise seductivly suck an icecream (tangle twisters are great)as though its nothing and watch him squirm. Asking whats up ? innocently and watch him scramble to think of an excuse....
ie if you are forward and playful he realises you like him and it puts YOU in control
2006-06-25 16:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I firmly believe if someone likes me, or has any kind of feeling they should tell me up front. Most wont because of different reasons. The biggest reason is they fear rejection which to me is silly when it comes to the type of person I am. Being my age I have learned that most everyone has some sugarcoating about them but it is what is under that sugarcoating that is the real person.
most people have such harsh feelings about themselves and how they think someone will see them, they will avoid expressing their feelings to keep from getting hurt. or someone turning them down so bad that it will crush them or even make them feel worse about themselves.
If a person has feelings no matter what they are, the only way to disrespect me is keeping them feelings hidden.
2006-06-25 16:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt, smile, ask him to coffee ect. just don't spread your legs to quickly and you will earn his respect. If guys have not treated you with respect in the past, I would take a look at what you have been doing. Make sure that you respect yourself first, and the men in your life will too.
2006-06-25 16:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a conundrum. If a woman likes me why on earth would I disrepect her ? Woman friends have given me little gifts, taken me to dinner, showed up with little suprises, all of this gained my repect, I loved it ! What great ladies.
2006-06-25 19:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Richard B-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this cos i think all the other answers are crap Take the lead yourself, be a strong woman and if you want sex make sure he knows YOU want sex, not you'll let him have sex but you want it, and if he cant handle your strenght of character then why would you want his respect? my wife is a very strong dominant person but we have a 50/50 relationship. dont be a bimbo you'll never get anyone's respect!
2006-06-25 18:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by cassjag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy. arrange to go out. keep your options open, day or night time. few beers. after an hour or 2 you'll know how "things" are progressing. and you will know. only at that point should you think about "touchy feely" type behaviour or bite your lip and wakl away. youve nothing to loose. good luck
2006-06-26 11:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Pound Shop Price List 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing - Yum!!! Holding hands... Nice things really..
(A bj helps though ;) grin
2006-06-29 21:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come up to me and start talking about life and stuff and see what reaction you get mixed in with a small amount of flirting.
2006-06-25 19:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by LEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋