2006-06-25 09:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by Christina Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-06-29 01:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think lust is when u love someone 4 their looks or loving someone 4 the wrong reasons and love is when u just gotta be with that person, your constantly thinking about them and you'll go out of your way just 2 see them. To me, Love is an intense, overwhelming, undescribable feeling that's the best feeling in the world but at the same time the worst.
2006-06-25 16:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is when you ave to have that person right at the moment, and the feelings dont last. Love can wait years at a time and when you see that person again you will still love him.
2006-06-25 16:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust fades in a few months to a couple of years. Love stays always. You can't let go of the passion even if you try.
2006-06-25 16:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust -- I want you.
Love -- I care for you.
2006-06-25 16:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋