i thnk my gf is intereste din another guy or is seeing him already becuase they ahve been chatting and talking and the guy has left comments on her my sapce like i love u and calls her cute names and SHe calls him my PIMP..i no this might not mean much but how can i be sure that im on the safe side and im not about to get dumped or anything like that. how can i sort of put my gf in a test to see if her love for me is real or if she is juts fooling around and just likes the reality of having a boyfriend...if i need more details tell me and i will re right the question
2006-06-25 09:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 11:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
that's real hard 2 say because if she's cheating and really care about u she'll hide it good.But a way 2 know if she's cheating is if she change, if she starts 2 do things she wouldn't do like- if y'all get in 2 it and if she use 2 care like she'll get mad and starts 2 cry, and she don't do that any more that's because she have some one 2 fall back on. That's her way of showing u that she don't need u no more and that there is plenty of men out there that want her. If she doing Lil small things like this and if u really care about her then no matter what u wont let her go show and tell her that u love her, and if that don't work then she not what's good 4 u
2006-06-25 09:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, talk to her. explain her how you feel..... But, if she still calls you aften coz she wants to see you, if you still feel the same passion in her kisses, if you feel that nothinghas change in the way she treats you when you're 2gether,, if you feel she is the same enthusiasm person when you go out toghether or you are together....theeeenn, i don't think there's a problem with that guy.... Try to see if there's any changes to her behaviour when you're together. I still think you should talk to her coz even if there's nothing going on between them, i can see it's sth you feel uncomfortable with ( i mean talking in a 'so-sweet-way' with someone else while being UR g/f) and this shouldnt happen in a relatioship. And dont forbide from her to have other male friends coz this will make her feel depressed...
2006-06-25 09:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether she's already seeing him or not if you're uncomfortable with their level of closeness you need to tell her that. Without being confrontation or accusatory ask her what is going on between them if anything. She may admit to something which would then be your answer. Yet, if she says nothing is going on then tell her that you're uncomfortable with the way the talk to each other and ask if she can cut it out. If she gets defensive and says that she won't or it's nothing to worry about then she isn't considerate of your feelings and you need to find a new girlfriend who would be.
2006-06-25 09:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by jncsquared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut feeling. But a good trick is: Act like you have to go out of town for a few days with your boys or for something else she won't suspect. Tell her goodbye and then dress up in disquise and follow her around. Or just ask her. Sounds like she is young. Young girls like to flirt so maybe she just likes the attention but she hasn't done anything physically.
2006-06-25 09:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by rose430 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to test her u should probably set up a secret space as some hot guy and start hitting on her and see if she falls for it but dont try to be obvious about it............
2006-06-25 09:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by 12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one dude. glad im not in your shoes. maybe tell her how you feel and explain that you feel she has crossed boundries with the comments on the myspace. dont know. good luck.
2006-06-25 09:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the number one thing recommend you is play the role your playing today like be the best bf ever and trust her.......time will tell and sooner or later the truth will reveal... try not confronting her about it because there will be more problems and like i said only time will tell
2016-03-27 04:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋