ok let me be a little more detail about my situation. i've been dating my boyfriend for 1yr and 2 months and i truly love him but when we started dating i wasnt really interested in him and i was young so i cheated on him. i regreated very much later on when he also cheated on me to get "revenge". we r currently dating but i just foung out he cheated on me but he says he only did it cuz i did it first. should we just go on in life and for get everything that happen and start new?? im kinda of scare he is gonna do it again even if he says he isnt.
2006-06-25 09:21:29 · 5 answers · asked by Diunys B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
neither one of you are ready for a serious relationship, how can you trust each other?
2006-06-25 09:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by wolf1230pack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through something similar, except I was the one who cheated to get even with my boyfriend at the time. We ended up dating for about 3 1/2 years, but it was never the same. I think that once you cheat (or are cheated on, for that matter) the trust in the relationship is completely gone. You (and him) will always be wondering and doubting; and a relationship can not thrive in that situation. Enjoy yourself while you can, forgive him if you want...but just know that it's probably not going to work out in the long run...
2006-06-25 16:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends. if you have ever heard of the show " Grounded for Life " 2 characters, Lily and Brad, have the same problem. Brad went away to space camp for 1 month. Brad made out with a girl there and didn't even think that his girlfriend would care. there is one cheat. then Lily found out and started trying to get back at him by asking a guy out that worked at the nearest coffee shop. but when Brad got back they started dating again. try and relate to this and see if it works out!!!
2006-06-25 16:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by julia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably scared that you will also do it again. i live by the old adage that once a cheater always a cheater. start new with somebody else. AND DONT CHEAT!!!!!!!!!! if you feel the need to cheat then you dont belong with the person you are with.
2006-06-25 16:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the trust is broken and cant be fixed between you two, then keeping the relationship is incredibly hard. You have to have trust in a relationship in order for it to grow strong and last.
2006-06-25 16:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋