2006-06-25 09:07:46 · 11 answers · asked by babyfacepooka 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
im so sorry for your losss, grieve as much as you need to, keep a journal, write poems and talk to someone about it and just surround yourself with friends and family to remind yourself you arent alone and you do still have people that care :)
2006-06-25 09:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by uiucsmith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a really close friend a couple years ago. God helped my through the pain. But also, I would suggest to focus on your future and who you are and what you want to do. (This is for after you feel you've greived for a while. Don't suppress emotion, take as long as you feel to "get over" this. Don't let anyone tell you you've taken too long a time.) Take up a new hobby. It sounds cheesy, but I worked through a lot of emotions with that by learning a new instrument.
2006-06-25 16:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by crazyzoomusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry your frend just died.
You should write by hand a note to the parents, telling them how sorry you are, and mentioning a few of the good qualities of your friend and good times you had together.
If you are really motivated, you might ask your friends for a donation in memory of your friend, and donate it to whatever non-profit organization would make sense.
Think about the good times you had, and be thankful for the time you had together.
It will not be easy, but in time the pain will go away.
2006-06-25 16:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by fcas80 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone you can talk to whether it be another friend, family or someone who knew the person. There are various steps that you will go through take each one as it comes. You will go through a range of emotions which is normal. Don't be afraid to talk it's the best medicine..good luck
2006-06-25 16:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Code3EMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the good times. Don't let the pain of the loss erase the good times.
2006-06-25 16:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your loss...i had the same thing happend to me...what i did was i got a tattoo to remember him by...it's something that i will always have and i will never forget about. but in the mean time...talk to family and friend and do things that you love to do.
2006-06-25 16:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by pshh =] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay to grive remember the good times the places where you went together. its okay to cry write down your feelings write a letter put togehter a scrapbook go for a walk. I feel your lose and remember this its okay.
2006-06-25 16:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by LENORE P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna take lots of hard work and dedication. Sorry for your loss.
2006-06-25 16:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by bddrex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow yourself the time to grieve, it will help you get through it better
2006-06-25 16:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by ☼Jims Brain☼ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, dont think about it constantly, just know she is in a better place now...
hugs. . .
2006-06-25 16:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋