I love my bf very much. We have been together for 3 years... He gained alot of weight. I have spoken to him about this but he is not serious enough. I have suggested we go gym together. But no luck! Any suggestions... he really works hard and fast food seems to be inevitable
2006-06-25 08:25:31 · 10 answers · asked by Laventel 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
You can't get some one to loose weight, just like you can't make someone quit smoking or drinking. You can suggest things to him, and explain the health benefits of loosing the weight. You can suggest that he go to this MD to see if he has any medical conditions that may be causing the weight gain. Ultimately though the decision belongs to your bf. You also may try doing more active things together such as bike riding, walking, dance lessons, or even laser tag. I am not sure if you go out to dinner a lot, but if you do, try staying in for dinner more often and then cook healthy meals together. Good luck to you!!!
2006-06-25 09:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Josie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try packing food for him prepared by you. Or you all could make it together the night before. If the gym seems too much like, "She wants me to work out," kind of word, ask him to go play tennis with you at the park or even go swimming....maybe the gym is too closed in of a word and thought for him.
2006-06-25 15:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by lookitstasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maybe show him some real live facts or pictures of what can happen when your overweight or obese...also give him a positive miind and let him think on it with all the information you've gathered and maybe then it would work or what you could do is cook a nice healthy dinner and spend some nice quality time together just to each other thats the best sort of communication is to talk to each other!
2006-06-25 15:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could find a sport or an activity that both of you will like to do every once and a while.. you could ask him to teach you some sport he likes.. and be really interested on it.. then make it an activity once a month or week.. or you could try do some playing with him.. play frisbee or paintball or airsoft.. it all wraps into one... doing things together that you both like.. working out your bodies while having some bondness together also... ;p
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2006-06-25 16:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to do something he likes that is mild in terms of exercise. If he doesn't like it or it's too hard, he won't stick to it. Walking is good, so is swimming. Ultimately the decision is up to him though. If you push, he may not want to exercise.
2006-06-25 15:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
force feed him a mixture of salsa, laxitives, beans, high fiber cereal, and fermented fruit, then strap him to a toilet. or if you want sumthing less messy, just be really serious with him, and maybe even fake cry.
2006-06-25 15:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step #1
Learn the difference between loose and lose!
2006-06-25 15:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by got theanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeding him. Or move on He will need a reason to stop over eating.
2006-06-25 15:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm get that person on a diet
2006-06-25 15:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋