I don't make my husband go to church, he goes on his own, more than I do. We are different religions, so we go to different churches, he to Christian, me to Catholic. I have tried to go to his church in the past and I just didn't feel comfortable. He has never made an effort to go to my chruch and I have never pressured him, like he did to me. I told him if he ever wants to attend w/me he is more than welcome. Now it seems like everytime we go to church he ends up getting really mad later in the day. It is over silly little things, like today when I was watering my flowers he said I watered them to much and was going to kill them. I have owned/ran a greenhouse for 11 years. It is always something stupid, but still always something. Why is this?
2006-06-25 08:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Flower Girl 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It may be that his church is filled with husband/wife couples and he feels the lack. Or people have asked him where his wife is. My husband and I are in nearly the same situation. I think religion issues have done almost as much damage to marriages as having affairs. Try to discuss this when he's not angry?
2006-06-25 08:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First let me say that I was raised in a Catholic Church, and later switched over into a basic Christian Church. I found the transition was much easier going that way, than it would have been from going to a "loose" service to a "strict" mass. I can understand why he is uncomfortable in mass.
His anger may stem from something as simple as going to church and witnessing all the other couples at the service holding hands or singing/praising together and that is something he wants (although would never ask you for). My wife and I are both Christians that attend different churches. Both are Christian churches with similar services, but I prefer my church (which was her church until about 6 months ago, when she switched to her fathers church). She prefers her fathers church. Do I miss her during services...yes. People ask about her from time to time and there I sit by myself every week.
While I don't believe I get angry with her, I know I'm not completely content about going to different churches.
Perhaps you should go to mass on Saturday night and then go to service with him a couple times and see if it helps his anger calm down.
2006-06-25 15:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd speak to hubby, and the Lord... A husband and wife are to be one... A husband is head of the house..where he says the church the family goes to, how often, etc... Maybe he's learned something in the church he's attending, and not liking that you choose to go against his headship and attend another church? It's better to take it to hubby and God..;)
2006-06-25 15:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by indiebaptist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard sometimes when there is more than one religion in the household. I think you two should sit down and talk about what is going on to see if it is related to church or if something else may be bothering him.
2006-06-25 15:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by kewltazdude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As You are non compromising lady it is firm andyour husband is not like that level and cause is lack of understand each other and mentally disturbance so he is going to church and you are no more interest in worship church etc and just reverse to him like friend party mooving etc. and that is good and lack of too meutual intimate relation too cause to going church and madness
2006-06-26 03:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by name of spritual tantra horr0r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a Catholic and he is a Born again Christian, even thou you both believe you are both Christians, the born again christian believe the catholic church is not very christian
2006-06-25 15:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by man of ape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't give him anal or something. Or maybe you haven't plowed him in a while. Stop worrying about the greenhouse and give him some action.
2006-06-25 15:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Redeemer,Savior,Deliverer-MARINE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you glad that we are not held accountable for what our husbands do? We are held accountable only for the way that we respond to them. Our husbands need our prayers by doing so you will help him to the man that God wants him to be.
http://www.biblebelievers.com/SimpleSalvation.html
2006-06-25 15:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you both free your minds of mythology? After you both reject the silly myths and superstitions you will both be happier.
2006-06-25 15:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something deeper bothering him. It would be better if you asked him rather than us.
2006-06-25 15:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by SEOplanNOW.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋