If yes, why? If no, why not?
2006-06-25 07:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what if it was you who cheated, and you still love who you are with, would you want him to leave you or forgive you for your mistakes?
2006-06-25 08:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by young kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to hear this but yes we will without a doubt definitely cheat on you. Just as if a man were to hit you, if he does it once and you let him get away with it than he will hit you again. It may not seem like it, but there are some really good guys who do not cheat out there waiting for a good woman. Do not let him have that much power over you, if you do not dump him you will be giving him power. Cut it short, right now. Remain friends with him to see how he will react if he takes the friend thing to well, then let him go. Trust.
2006-06-25 15:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by mahogany1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, from personal experience. It has happen to me more than once, and I have doubted myself many times thinking it had to be something I'm doing wrong, but after a talk with a male friend he says it not me, its just how some men are, they take advantage of women who are good to them, they tend to make the woman believe its them, when in reality its something in the man. But, after much thought, it is a little something in me too. Just my personal opinion.
2006-06-25 15:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by spoiled_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I had a cheating husband and I left him..why ? because I knew in my heart that he didnt really love me even though he swore to me that he did.. I left him and said if you want to prove me to that you love me this is what you have to do..and I laid it all out for him.. A he had to get marriage cousling that both He and I would take B he had to agree to a year of being accounted for.. meaning he had to let me know where he was all the time and accept that I may or may not show up to check.
C. he had to agree in writing that if he cheated on me again it would mean a no contest divorce on my terms. Sadly to say he wasnt able to prove his love for me.. and I got my no contest divorce on my terms.
2006-06-25 15:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by trudie_barraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is obviously not happy and is just staying because of security reasons. Maybe he got to comfortable. Also, once a cheater always a cheater. I personally would not be sitting around having to wander where he is or who he is with and what disease he will bring me home.
2006-06-25 15:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by sceptileptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on me once...depending on what form of cheating...no I wouldn't leave him because guys are bound to make mistakes. He's a guy! But the second time...I would because mistakes are not something you make twice. Obviously he has issues with being faithful.
2006-06-25 15:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave because his actions just goes to show that the relaitonship meant nothing to him and we were not meant to be together.I do not believe that 2 people in love will hurt each other like this.
2006-06-25 15:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends becuase im in a relationship that i got cheated on but that was a stage in my life we both got over and moved on. If he is sorry and u could really tell give him a second changes remember no one is perfect!
2006-06-25 15:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Diunys B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how good our relationship is and how he treats me. and also how long we've been together. if he's like the sweetest and most honest boy i've ever dated and we have a good relationship. i would stay with him and we'd work it out. but, he just won't be touching me for a minute. if he treats me bad or we always fight and everything else, i'd leave and just erase him from my life.
2006-06-25 15:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by Young Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If I am not enough for him then he just go shove his head up his a$$ and fu(k himself because I ain't gonna put up with that $hit.
2006-06-25 15:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would leave him,If he does it once,there's a very good chance he'll do it again and again.
2006-06-25 15:02:03 · answer #11 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋