well i just got a boyfriend&&his mom dont like me his mom has called me something&&i want her to like me&&i dont know how i can get her to like me because when im not at his house his mom dont let him call me she calls me names&&she dosent want him to see me&&i need help
2006-06-25 07:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by angel_baby_25008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like a mother tiger - no one is going to get near her baby boy. Angelbaby - whether or not this is going to be a serious boyfriend, he needs to talk with his mother and let her know he's old enough to decide with whom he wants to spend his time (if he isn't a minor). If he is a minor, I'd let him go. Why isn't he calling you and why is he putting up with her calling you nasty names.
You're too good for him, and he AND his mother both need to grow up.
2006-06-25 07:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Serena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the state you're in, his mother's boyfriend might be in posession of child pornography (because you're 17) and there may be other laws as well that he broke - even in his own home. If he's keeping the videos after finding out for sure what he suspected, that's even worse!! You have several options. Whether or not your parents know you're having sex, you should talk with them about what's happening. Your parents (in most states) should decide how to handle it. If your parents decide to call the police, that's their call. So, for his part, your bf's mother's boyfriend could go to jail without your father's help if he's truly in posession of a sex tape of a 17 year old. With that said, did he really tape you? Or is he just telling you that to keep you from having sex in his home. Then, there's a matter of being respectful in someone else's home. Had your boyfriend's mom and boyfriend made you aware that they don't want you having sex in their home before the recording? While it's NOT a reason to record you, if he was sneaking around and being disrespectful they may have felt this was a last resort. Now that you both know the way they feel, make sure that you respect their wishes.
2016-03-27 03:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mom and don't like my son's new girlfriend. So, maybe my perspective would help.
My problem is that she calls many, many, times a day and comes over when I am not at home after I specifically told both she and him that I don't want ANYONE here while I am at work or in bed for the evening.
If my son would ask me of she can come over when I am home, if she would limit the phone calls to 2 or even 3 a day (and not call every 5 minutes after not getting an answer, I don't like to answer call waiting when I am on the phone long distance)
I would be willing to give her a chance if they were respecting my home and my rules.
2006-06-25 07:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by msdagney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't have to border yourself about that cos love is a natural thing or maybe there is something the mom has seen you do or some place she has seen you go and she dat may be the reason why she does not like you. But you can still make a difference maybe u have not been dressing well to the mom's taste so go back and check yourself very well and stop those things you know dat you are not doing well, am sure she will try and show some likeness to you but if she does not then don't border yourself about it.
2006-06-25 07:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason she don't like you?
Really all you can do is be nice and try to not be as imature as she is. Some moms are just that way because you are dealing with her son. I have a son and when he starts dating I will probably be the same way (minus the name calling, etc). I will atleast be very weary of who he dates.
2006-06-25 07:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by sceptileptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give any reasons why she might not like you. Are you a lot younger or older than your boyfriend? Do you dress like a tramp? (Most moms like girls on the conservative side.) Have you asked your boyfriend why his mom doesn't like you?
We can't offer suggestions unless we have more definitive information.
2006-06-25 07:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she doesn't like and then work from there. If she doesn't have a valid answer then don't waste your time. She has some issues that she needs to deal with herself.
2006-06-25 07:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want her to like you? You really should not waste your time with her b/c if he really likes you, it will work out in the end.
2006-06-25 07:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's YOUR attitude. Or...it could be no girl will ever be good enough for her baby. You can't make someone like you. You can only be yourself.
2006-06-25 07:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably helps on knowing why she doesn't like you then try to fix those things.
2006-06-25 07:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋