We hit it off well and things went fast but not to fast. I know she has had bad luck with men in the past, she also said certain elements of her nature seem to push men away, i am not swayed. Could she really be protecting me from her?. her friends and family don't know who I am, we have only been dating for two weeks, they would not be able to get ahold of me if somthing did happen, like an accident. It is really taking it's toll on me I am asking myself if it is me, if I moved too fast, or if she is just not in a place to start a relationship in her life. I thought I was but now I am not so sure. If somthing happened or came up and she was able wouldn't she at least call. I have not dated in ten years, has the relationship condition deteorated that much that this could be a mind game so soon in the relationship, should I worry or am I just drunk on the novelty that a beautiful girl is interested in me.? Am I going to fast wearing my heart on my sleeve or have I become that insecure?
2006-06-25 07:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Ravenmoon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her a message saying that you're worried that something may have happened when she didn't show. Ask her to text/call letting you know she is OK and that if you don't hear from her within the next day you're going to check with her family and friends. Be cool and calm no hysterics. End the message by saying that if she doesn't want to know that's fine but as a gentleman you are just concerned that nothing bad happened to her. If she doesn't want the drama of you turning up at her house then most sane people would get a message to you somehow. If you do go to her family, don't cause a scene, just say you are a concerned friend. Nothing turns people off more than when people try to drag their family onside.
With regard to her pushing men away, you can't help her until she helps herself.
2006-06-25 07:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, I think you moved too fast, considering you have only been with her for 2 weeks. It sounds like you are older, so i would guess that she is of the age of common sense. If you two are in a relationship and she hasn't called in days, that might be a bad sign. I think that i would move on. Because if she truly cared about you she would tell you what she was thinking instead of just disappearing on you. I hope things go well for you, and no you aren't insecure. You are just like me, because i have to tendency to put my all into a relationship and sometimes the other person has plans of their own.....Good Luck
2006-06-25 14:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and leave a msg for her to call you just so you know she is ok since you havent heard from her in a while. If she doesnt call you then she may just not want to have anything to do with you. If she is really missing her family and friends will report it. Just assume she wants nothing to do with you and move on. You could always go to her house and see if her mail has been collecting for days, if not then she has been there and is ok.
2006-06-25 14:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yo know what ex girlfriend means. Well get used to it because if she has not contacted you in 5 days someone has taken your place. Women are like animals, they like to be fed and bed as often as men but never admit it. Unless you are really desperate move on.
2006-06-25 14:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesssss
2006-06-25 14:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope everything is okay with her if it is then she needs some time to think things out maybe can't get in touch with nobody to see if she is alright go to a place or hang out you might see her if not wait she'll call if not move on good luck
2006-06-25 14:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by shannon i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should woory! if it's u're new GF den u should worry! even wen u're expect'n her she aint shown ^? dam boi u betta go check ^ on her! 4-real! go rite now n go ask 4 her! if u dont find her contact her frends! dats a serious issue ! o she just doesnt wana c u! dats anoda reason so go find yo answer.
2006-06-25 14:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by *Baby Girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to hurt your feelings but sounds like she is intrested in someone else and trying to avoid you,or else she could be out of town with her family.Why dont you call her buddy?
2006-06-25 14:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry for what? She has found a new one.
2006-06-25 14:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA, DONT WORRY SHE IS FINE, SHE IS JUST HERE GIVING ME A ********
2006-06-25 14:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by MonirSalum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋