why does it always happen to me???

Question

1. ok so when girls ask me if i have a girlfriend i say no because for the past year we dont call each other boyfriend and girlfriend we consider ourselves married so i forget that i just have a girlfriend, so if a girl says do you have a girlfriend i say no so should i say im married instead, cuz i just realized me saying NO about a girlfriend they take it as me being single? so do i just start saying "yes i have a girlfriend"?
2. i like to chat with people and meet new people in chat rooms and all that and im just nice, sweet, my normal self when i talk to new people, and i have no problem talking about myself, cuz i like to see things through other people so i talk to peole trying to get to know them so why does it always turn out that when i talk to girls they always just end up telling me they like me and that it sucks i dont like them back! does that mean i should be mean to them so they wont end up liking me or anything like having a crush on me?

what do i do about it all?

Answer 1

If you were serious about your girlfriend you would say you have one !!! sTOP TALKING TO ONLINE FEMALES AND ACTTING SINGLE

Answer 2

1. Surely you are not as obtuse as your question indicates. OF COURSE if they are asking you if you have a girlfriend, what they want to know is, Are you in a relationship? If you are in a relationship that you feel is like a marriage, then the correct answer, OF COURSE, is yes.

2. When you are chatting and meeting new people, you are obviously "acting single" and girls are responding to that. If you want to avoid confusion and hurt feelings, disclose up front that you are in a committed relationship.

3. What do you do about it all? Start using your head, and I'm talking about what's between your ears, not your legs.

Answer 3

Hey 1. First of all, your takened, and thats that. Maybe thats what you should just say, not everything needs a title, its the point that matters. When a girl asks you if you have a girlfriend, just say, well yeah I am seriously involved with someone right now. You dont need to tell everyone the details of your personal life, especially to other girls. Your girlfriend wants to feel like that you two are married because she is serious about it, so telling other girls that you are simply seriously involved will be just the same. As far as anything else, tell them to not worry about it and you dont mind just being friends, just make sure you remember that you have a girlfriend and that YES YOU ARE TAKENED. lol.
2. Theres nothing wrong with chatting to other people. But when you are talking to other girls, of course all there going to start thinking about is..does he like me..I think thats what everythings about when your in a chatroom talking to the opposite sex. So to spare them from any hurt just say hey Im not single right now..so yada yada yada, or when they ask just tell them. ORrr maybe when you get in a chatroom just say, Im a male who is involved with someone right now but just looking for friendly chicks to chat with. SOmething like that, I know it may seem corny and some girls might keep from talking to you once they know your takened, but hey atleast it will spare someone from getting hurt Of course chicks are going to like you if you have that kind of charm but just keep it real with them, they will appreciate that even more. Peacee out buddyyy.

Answer 4

1. Tell them u have a girl and that ur pretty serious about it.

2.About the online thing u really cant do much about it but also jus be honest with the person ur talkin to and tell them that ur not lookin for anything but friendship.i wish ya the best

Answer 5

Say u hav a girl and yall r serious. then stop talkin online to ppl

Answer 6

yes you have a girlfriend it's nothing wrong with having friends as long as you don't lead people on be you .

Answer 7

hey samanthadesign, this idiot has no clue what the word obtuse means!!

Answer 8

tell them that you are maried, or engaged. That will work!