is my parents say no jst coz he is not good looking there no other problem what shuld i do how should i convince them
2006-06-25 06:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by hot chilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask them why it matters so much to them about how he looks.. then ask them isnt it more important that he treats u good and isnt good looking then being good looking and treating u like crap!
2006-06-25 06:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by lilarmywife2904 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i realize that parents some time r nt able 2 understand our problems but at the end of the day they want yr happiness n remember that That happiness lies in u ,c u should convince them slowly n tactfully that u really like dis guy n u will always be happy with him through his life n more importanotly he loves u n will keep u safe.looks r nt imp ultimately wt is important is his heart n he himself .c it may take time 2 them 2 understand but u keep trying ask yr bf 2 meet yr frequently 4 short time probably they change That mind n plz if they dont dont take any step that hurt them or u which is not right
2006-06-25 07:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they're not dating him, you are. Looks aren't everything, looks are hardly anything. I'm sure they would have told you that when you were growing up even, so they shouldn't say something like that.
Ask your parents, will they still love eachother when they get old and don't look the same, don't look as young, start looking "ugly"?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-06-25 07:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by ianna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think your parents should be more supportive of you. Maybe tell your parents how much you love this guy & how well he treats you and that unless they can come up with a valid reason as to why you shouldn't date him, that you WILL carry on seeing him. They will have to back down because they will know they'll risk loosing you over this.
2006-06-25 06:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your parents what did their families think of them, and looks arent the important thing they need to calm down on the look thing let them know if it is the only problem with the two of you they should be lucky and allow you to live the way you wish, I have four kids and looks arent what I worry about it is the way they are bein treated and the way they treat, also finacial is a big concern but not the reason to not allow , my kids choose who they want I can change that I have a problem with on she is very cruel but he loves her anyway gotta try to get over it,
2006-06-25 07:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder .
Is he good looking to you ?
You can't judge a book by it's cover .
Would your parents like some one to choose you on your looks alone
and not on who you are on the inside?
Ask them if he would be good enough if you got very fat .We all loose our looks with age .But to have some one to be with and talk to in our golden years is priceless
2006-06-25 07:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you say no other promblems just his looks? well tell your parent if you get a fine guy that looks handsome and beats the hell out of you is that better.come on what happen to how a person treats me that matter .i thought anyway the person in the relationship should have the say .you have to look .kiss whatever right? him
2006-06-25 06:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by shannon i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.. if you really love him you shouldn't be thinking about your parents, trust me if he's a good guy they'll end up loving him
2006-06-25 07:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you are the one who loves him and you will be dating him, not them. It is your life and you could see who ever you want.
2006-06-25 07:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are worried about having ugly grandkids.
Fact:
Ugly people get longer prison sentence.
2006-06-25 06:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by r_e_a_l_miles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋