I love this guy. Its 3 years now that we love. He has let his parents know about us. But in my place religion matters alot. Hence, there were severe problems and his parents refused to accept me. He is not ready to marry me if his parents dont agree. He is protective, caring, calls every alternate day,remembers what I dress and say, repeatedly says he likes my character and loves me. But something is missing is what my gut feeling says.Coz, there are some serious flaws in spite of his words, like saying a no to me because he needs to do something back for his parents inspite of me letting to sacrifice my culture and religion for him, not prefering our relation to be known to his friends or work circle, sometimes seems distant when with me.While I say my close friends who he is, he stays in orkut with a bold "single" written in his relation status. He says that might tarnish his image since people gossip. I ask abt it he says he is serious thats y he is fighting for me.Should I go on...
2006-06-25 06:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he is not married. He is 30 and I am 24. Both of us are independant and doing good work in our own respective fields. I love n adore my parents and am very particular about my career as well. He talked about taking a normal job out of my interest without doing a post doc. Somehow, I dont see the happiness that he ought to get in my achievements, that I have when he does great work. Compromise on religion culture is all fine...but on my parents and career upsets me. All this and more for him saying "Look if my parents accepts its fine, else we part". Also, in the last few months I have caught him telling I love u to someone whom he knew through chat once,the justification given I know I am a cheater when caught red handedly and later said she is like my mother.Registered in matrimonial site searching for a girl of his caste,when asked y said just curiosity. I worshipped him, never demanded anything from him, loved him.Is this the return I ought to get.Is this worth sitting n waiting
2006-06-25 08:01:04 · update #1
I would have thought I am the booty call if I had been engaged too physically with him.Thats not the case either
2006-06-25 08:13:23 · update #2
Follow your gut feeling, us guys can really love our partners, but it doesn't stop us flirting, which is wy I'd love to know your fantasies!! Get in touch!!!
2006-06-25 06:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by breathoffreshair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worry about the hiding your relationship together most people in love dont care about others and what they would think, people have odd ways of showin their love and its hard to tell someone else what to do but you seem like you are in a relationship with a married man instead of single, put the ax down on him and let him know your not gonna wait forever, its one way to see if he is as serious as you are, good luck and dont get too warped if doesnt work out the men that really love are very proud to show it off,
2006-06-25 06:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very special question reflects a honest thirst for evaluations and proposals. the difficulty is that from subculture to subculture the regulations are diverse and the expectancies are additionally very diverse. That pronounced my opinion may be which you're able to do lots greater effective and can be paying interest to quite a few the greater profound signs and indicators that this man or woman isn't your soulmate or genuine love. First he places no longer purely his mothers and fathers above you yet expects you to return close to to disclaim your, so mandatory, faith. a man or woman's religious ideals pass very lots to the middle of the guy they're and a husband ought to opt to comprehend each element of a friends existence. additionally he says his mothers and fathers ought to settle for you in addition to might which places you able to being especially much impossible to thrill them and consequently him. Scriptures say that a guy ought to leave his dad and mom and be joined to his companion putting her first, good at the back of his love and devotion for God. you're additionally since he's distant from you, no longer that he looks that way. you're smart and comprehend whilst somebody is distant. additionally by potential of holding he's profoundly single potential that he's not prepared to make that committment to you. additionally the lack of apprecation looks to assert he's not pleased with you or does not care approximately your achievements the two. My costly locate that stunning guy or woman which you're and be helpful in your self. This man or woman isn't the guy for you and that i do no longer think of worth of the devotion which you have given him. there are various others interior the international which will savour you and your faith besides as proportion interior the failings that make you proud. be pleased approximately the stable situations you have had yet this courting, for my section, is doomed and it rather is ultimate left at the back of as you seek for to finally end up and that guy or woman that considers you merely as specific as you do.
2016-10-31 11:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself first. Woman, believe it or not; instinctively know in their heart; if they are in a healthy relationship or not. Intuition is what saved us in days long gone by; let your intuition lead you now.
2006-06-25 06:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man falls in love he is worst than a woman. so no. it when he's falling out of love you should be worried about
2006-06-25 06:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are the booty call
2006-06-25 06:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he says one thing doesnt mean he really means it
2006-06-25 06:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by HAS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope no flirting
2006-06-25 06:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by thor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he really married ?
2006-06-25 06:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋