Okay. I heard that in some states or something if you have oral sex you're not considered a virgin anymore. Is that true? Or is that everywhere or a personal opinion? I got that off a teen message board on www.teenspot.com. I'd just like to know if it's true or not. Thanks for the help! <3
2006-06-25 06:32:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No thats not true.
2006-06-25 11:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a matter of opinion. Some people believe if your hymen is intact that you are a virgin.
As former President Clinton found out, others believe oral sex is sex.
My opinion? If you have to use the word sex in the description so that someone knows what it is, then it is sex. If you've had sex, you aren't a virgin. Otherwise a lesbian might be a virgin her whole life no matter how many partners she had.
2006-06-25 13:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence is defined as no genital contact at all. Some people define virginity as abstaining from sex, so that means any form of sexual contact (oral, fingering) might be considered losing virginity. The textbook term, however, is the actual penetration of the male genital part into the female genital part.
2006-06-25 13:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Breakdancer Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is still a form of sex, and engaging in this doesnt mean that you lost your virginity.
2006-06-25 13:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some states do have laws called "unnatural laws" which prohibit oral sex but these laws are rarely inforced. I believe there are 15 states who do still prosecute.
2006-06-25 13:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are considered a virgin until you have vaginal sex and your hymen is broken.
2006-06-25 13:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a virgin anymore when a penis breaks through your hymen. (Pops your cherry)
2006-06-25 13:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by hoothootwaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with breakdancer...You can't lose your virginity without actually having intercourse.
2006-06-25 13:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not true...in order for your viginity to be taken you must have intercourse
2006-06-25 13:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by got_milk1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not true and don't belive what you read it not always true either
2006-06-25 14:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by asgsj2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋