I've been married 2 years now and I've hinted several times that I want to do that but she gets all emotional and says it disgusts her and she doesn't believe in it. After all I've done for her I think she owes it to me. How can I persuade her?
2006-06-25 05:58:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter how much u do for someone, they don't owe it to u, to go against there morals. She does not owe u her body. A ring on her finger does not mean u have the right to make her do things that she don't want to do. Think about what morals u have, and the person that u love wants u to go against them just because they want some a**(literally). U are hurting your wife now while u are begging her and pressuring her to do something she doesn't want to do. Do u care about ur wife's feelings, or are u too self-involved to notice that she has any? There are many other ways u can "do it," just like Adam & Eve, they could have had any fruit they wanted, but they just had to eat the apple because they couldn't have it. And look at the bad things that came out of that. Take advantage of all the other ways u can "do it," and forget about doing it "the other way." In the bible having anal sex is sodomy, and you're not suppose to do that any ways. Stop being greedy, and be appreciative of what u have... A wife that loves u.
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2006-06-25 06:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by judyju2004 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋
how about you get an object the same shape and size of yours (they sell them at specialty stores), then let her try it out on you with the same movements and positions you plan for her. then if you think it was fabulous - try to persuade her again. I have a feeling the subject will be closed. Men do not seem to understand that this is not a comfortable thing for most women, and can even do harm to the inner area. Will you think she still owes you (and she DOESN'T owe you anything - marriage is not a bargaining arena) while and after she goes through healing to fix what you thought was pleasure?!?
2006-06-25 06:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can. If she doesnt want to your not ganna change her mind thats up to her, youve hinted, ask her to think about it for a day or two. then talk to you about it. k. oh and a women never owes any man the men always owes the women think of what women always have to go through. but yeah good luck! and dont cheat on her!
2006-06-25 06:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean she owes you. Dont be ridiculous. She does not owe u a damn thing.If u are talking about anal sex, it should not be done so u need to stop asking your wife to do it. Do not force her to compromise her beliefs and morals for your selfish needs.
2006-06-25 06:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sher-Sher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty disturbing that you believe she "owes it to you" to fulfill any sexual whim you might have. I'd think since she's supposedly the woman you love, you wouldn't want to do anything that would make her uncomfortable.
2006-06-25 06:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have a woman in your life? we are designed with certain parts that are to be used for that purpose,if you want that,go find a man ,those are all the same you know,might as well do it to a man,he aint got the female part!
2006-06-25 06:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by kgrl360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats retarded, if it goes against her morals, then dont try to force her to do something she doesnt want too, i mean for real. now if your going to do that type of thing you might as well just cheat on her, it will hurt her just the same. emotioally and physically. so think about what your doing you jackass.
2006-06-25 06:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by dont you want to know? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you have her in the doggy position; stick it in there and hang on for the ride and dont let go. after she's done being mad, you may have a convert
2006-06-25 06:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by pahump1@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she owe you? second of all tell her sex is not suppose to be disguisting. third, if she doesnt feel comfortable than leave her alone.dont be foolish.
2006-06-25 07:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by unstablewife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. she knows what she likes and she doesn't like that. by the way, what is it with these "heterosexual" guys wanting to go through the back door? i think you have some bisexual issues to work out.
2006-06-25 06:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Margaret B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋