I'm 18 and married since i was 16, i used to be a really fun happy person but when i was 16 i moved to south africa and have been here 2 years due to the laws not allowing my husband to be with me in my home country of the UK, I think its all the stress of moving here so young and living with the stressful, unsafe lifestyle here. How can i overcome this depression and be fun and happy again?
2006-06-25 05:43:06 · 10 answers · asked by sarahscholtz 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Don't think of yourself as missing out on something...just focus on the good times you have...aim to treat yourself once a week, maybe badminton, tennis, ice skating, cinema, little things like that.
Things you wouldn't normally do, but do it just the 2 of you, ptu one day aside for just the 2 of you!
2006-06-25 05:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by izzlebums 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try and remember when you were younger at an age of birthday parties water fights, days at the beach, sports like food ball, hockey etc pick something you used to like.
If you asked me I would stay in the outdoors because you limit yourself indoors and I start feeling clostaphobic due to the smallness of my room.
But outside unless its raining of course is great fun especially by the nearest beach say Paington Pier, have ice cream, play in the sand.
Play an arcade game or two with mates, or just go for a nice relaxing walk- picture this
Sunglasses on, maybe a portable radeo, mini cd playa a cool drink with ice, a lemon and straw, sit on a cosy bench and watch the beautifull view.
If that Is'nt fun pick someone who has a better Idea but If this is the best answer please pick me, your choice of course im not rushing you!
2006-06-25 12:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Michael Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is to leave as so many young South Africans do. Any young person living in SA is absolutely mad whatwith the violent crime levels and racist Government.
2006-06-28 03:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Investigate the legal logistics of your situation and go from there. Good Luck!!!
2006-06-25 12:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house and have fun!
2006-06-25 12:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by brenda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-06-25 12:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back home where you will be happier. Your hubby should understand and move with you
2006-06-25 12:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divert ur mind to any other thing it is best if make a friend on net
2006-06-25 12:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Deepak Sharma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some good friends
2006-06-29 05:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells u.
2006-06-25 13:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋