Ok i basically really fell for this guy and I thought he felt the same way, and then he stopped talking with me all of a sudden. I later found out that he supposedly found someone else. How do I get over this guy and stop thinking about him. I've heard all the obvious, like to just find someone else, but it's sooo difficult. Any advice is appreciated.
2006-06-25 05:42:25 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatechip333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With time and experience, we are individuals learn a lot when it comes to men and women.
Girls tend to claim possession way to fast and automatically feel they are in a bf/gf relationship when 99% of the time it is not that way.
Guys tend to lead you into to thinking your an item when they are only wanting in your pants :) Then when the next chick comes their way they are off and into another chick :)
Move on with your life and before you jump to conclusions and think your in a relationship, make sure that you are. Most guys don't like to make a commitment :) Easier for them to walk away Best of luck to you :)
2006-06-25 05:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that your inability to get over this guy is due to trust issues which leave you unable to move on with your life. As long as you believe the trust you placed in him will be treated the same by the next guy you choose to have feelings for then you'll never completely be able to share honest emotions with someone else. I would tend to think that up to now you've been sad, felt heartbroken and betrayed but have never really yet felt anger over the way this relationship ended. My suggestion to you is to stop forgiving him in your mind for not being honest with you by being a man and simply telling you he wanted to move on. Be angry with him to yourself and classify him as someone who doesn't care about anyone but himself and that he's not good enough for you but in no way allow yourself to believe that there isn't a man who would be good enough for you.
2006-06-25 12:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget finding somebody else. I mean that'd be nice to do, but it's easier said than done. First of all, you have to realize that if a guy stops talking to you, that's his loss. You know what I mean? I mean your own value is based upon how you see yourself. So stop beating yourself up over that and realize that you deserve so much better than him. Then what you do after that is so easy....just live life. Go about your daily routine not worrying about it, and sooner than you know it someone else will find you. So chin up, lift your head high and know that eventually someone better than him will find YOU.
2006-06-25 12:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by let_it_be_known1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ahuman and your clever also you should know this type of people can not make real relation with any people because he miss something in him self so he try to make all the people like him i sea be cerful and forget him and im ther is som one like you and you did not sea him good
2006-06-25 12:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by rafea_al_sabty_1971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u try to be a friend to him or call and let him know how u feel..maybe he is not happy with is new date so he leaves her for u or when he know how u feel..i know it is hard but if u dont want me to say look for somebody else so thats whats u should do..call him
2006-06-25 12:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by sasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
indulge in chocolate,those Hersey cherry cordials are great,be careful you don't want to pack on to may pounds,the sun will come up there will be another boy and just perhaps that prefect one and you will cross paths .
2006-06-25 12:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by willieearlramon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him find out y he is talking to this girl instead of u get to the bottom of it
2006-06-25 12:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by fairy_fantasies_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will i whould start dateing ather gyes and trust me if your a good parson then he don't dissarve u anyhow
2006-06-25 12:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact me baby at jmesa123@yahoo.com ill give you a hand
2006-06-25 12:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
our biggest problem, is we become too possesive,,,when you can let that go, you will be better off,,,takes time,,,but i know you can do it!
2006-06-25 12:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋