we used to be really good friends but now she wants to go on dates with me what should i do
2006-06-25 05:30:54 · 18 answers · asked by Nikhil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date her. If you're good friends then always give her a chance, she may see something you don't adn since you two are already good friends you know you can trust her and know more about her, go for it and see how things go!
2006-06-25 05:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her
2006-06-25 12:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Zabana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...figure out what's stopping you from wanting to date her. If it's just that she's not your type, be nice but honest with her. There's no real way around sparing her feelings completely, but if she's never going to be your type, she needs to know so she can move on.
If you're hestitating because you're afraid if it messes up the friendship, you'll lose her altogher...tell her your fears. She might have the same fears. Plus, the best relationships usually started out as friends. So if you've been thinking about her in the same way, but were afraid...you have to go for it.
Either way...be honest with yourself and her. Your friendship deserves the honesty :-)
2006-06-25 12:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hwo do u feel about that?
Are you happy about that?
If u are, then u should totally go on a date with her.
Do u lik her as a friend a lot? If u do lik her at least a little as a girl...you should totally giv it a try. If ur gonna reject her. Remember that a girls heart is very fragile. Let her down easy. Good luck to u.
2006-06-25 12:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by eun3hei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it has been established that the both of you are really good friends, what's wrong with going out to a movie, concert, play, etc., with your good friend, who happens to be a woman?
2006-06-25 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Abstract 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not interested in her that way you need to tell her, but some of the best marriages start out as being good friends . but if you dont feel that way towards her you really need to let her know how you feel. she is your friend so i would think you would'nt have a problem talking to her about any thing.
2006-06-25 12:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on a date. It might be fun and lead to something more. If it's horribly awkward, just stick to being friends.
2006-06-25 12:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with it then you can say no to her. But if you say yes then you should also tell her that if it doesn't work out you would still want to be friends. Just remember that it's up to you, and it's OK if you say no.
2006-06-25 12:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by luvcry247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you really feel about her. And do you wish to persue the relationship further than gfood friends if not let her know .
2006-06-25 12:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by sexy chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her.."your friendship means more to me "
" I don't want to ruin this special relationship we share"...or, my fav " I'm going through a introspective time right now, & need you to be there for me as a friend"
2006-06-25 12:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋