So i don't know what to do my boyfriend works a lot and so he hasn't called me for 2 days. i saw him on thursday morning and talked to him thursday night and i haven't heard from him since than. each time i call him, he's asleep. is he trying to tell me something? i know he works a lot but does that mean he can't take 5 minutes to call me? I'm really confused and don'tknow what to do, if i should break up with him or say this isn't working or what. what do you think?
2006-06-25 05:16:37 · 12 answers · asked by AmandaJanuary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows what id going through his moind. One thing is for sure though. Hassling him will only push him further away if he is needing space. I know it's hard , but try not to call again. let him call you. Maybe he has just been busy. But if not, then when he wants to call you he will. If he doesn't call, then he isn't that keen and maybe wasn't worth the trouble in the first place.
2006-06-25 05:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by janey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not break up just because you haven't heard from him in 2 days. Now, if it becomes 2 weeks, I would begin to think something was wrong. Be a little patient. If he was considerate he would call, but maybe he's not Good luck.
2006-06-25 05:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are this way, it's not over for about a week or so. But it's not cool. I'd think of ending it if he's not busy. U call and some1 else answers and says that? Although my friend always called when I was asleep, I was, it wasn't a it's over thing. But it sounds fishy to me.
2006-06-25 06:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey *may* not realise he's not meeting your needs, and you should let him know this. If he knows that you've put yourself in this vulnerable position and still doesn't take out for you, then it's time to move on. He could just be having a bad week, or he may (in his own mind) be trying to soften the blow for something he's too chickenshi*t to come out and say. Hang in there and best of luck!
2006-06-25 05:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply call him, tell him you miss him, and leave a cute little voice mail for him, letting you know you care.
You said so yourself he works a lot.
Just support him.
At least he's working, unlike some if the guys I've dated.
2006-06-25 05:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. Stop calling him and let him relax a little then call you. No one likes to feel crowded in a relationship!
2006-06-25 05:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by yogazen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cant find time to call and say I love you but I need to sleep, than he isnt worth your time.Move on and find someone who knows how to treat a woman.
2006-06-25 05:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it...he'll call you when he's ready. Remember guys function differently from us. He could be madly in love with you and just need his space or something and not call for a month or more. Don't worry about it.
2006-06-25 05:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Yokihana 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
boys are just so insensitive... my boyfriend wouldn't call for an entire week and would just show up on the weekend asking me out... relax... or better still, stop jumping into conclusions and just ask him straight... that way you won't be left guessing!
goodluck girl!!!
2006-06-25 05:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by prettybitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Missy
2006-06-25 05:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋