this guy and me have amazing sex, it feels like he is the one, but i think he is sleeping with other women as he is scared of falling for me... now we are gonna live in different cites.. he is very quiet and all we really do together is have incredible sex, strange
2006-06-25 04:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by smiley puppy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because women usually invest emotional energy into sex. Men have a much easier time having sex and NOT investing emotionally in it.
Quite frankly mind blowing sex is also addictive. It's a powerful drug.
However, you are not both in love. You are addicted and infatuated and he's just a player.
If he were really in love with you, he would not be afraid to be faithful, he'd be afraid to be a dog for fear of losing you.
If you put up with it, he will never change because he doesn't have to. He has you at his beck and call, and he can be a pig too.
It's time to walk away from this boy.
If he doesn't come running with deep apologies and a strong desire to be faithful, than he doesn't love you.
It IS that simple.
2006-06-25 04:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lori A 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ur wrong sweetie, end it please, before u get hurt. U only feel it, and he only feels the incredible sex. Duh. It feels like it? Amazing sex only lasts less then a year, lust is 1 year, and passion 3. The relationship will end when it falls apart when u need to be closer. U need to move on. NO SEX till marriage. What they said, I doubt ur truly in love, and he's a player. Very true about intimacy. I read that people w real love have less sex. Because they already have an "amazing" intimacy(emotionally not sexually)
2006-06-25 12:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To all females-
stop thinking amazing sex = love
it doesn't!
It's only amazing sex! There is a huge difference!
And if the 2 of you have not stated that you will be exclusive, then stop thinking that you are! It will save a lot of pain for you in the end. And use protection!
2006-06-25 11:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you so much that he is having sex with someone else, then move on. You will be making a break anyway by being in different cities. Having good sex with a guy doesn't always mean anything to them, to them its just sex. Women deal with feelings, men do not!!!!
2006-06-25 11:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a greater emotional involvement in sex than men. For them it's easy to walk away and have sex with others. That's why women should only have sex in a committed relationship. This guy is going to cause you nothing but heartache.
2006-06-25 11:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation its not strange. Question is are you guys in a relationship or do you just get together for sex.
2006-06-25 11:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by sexy chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him about the way u feel, this is the best way 2 sort it out, if talking doesn't help or if he flys off the handle, atleast then u hav a proper reason to break up, not just ur paranioa , an u never no he mite just hav other problems y he dusnt want to comit and evrything will b sorted out once u tlk - trust me x
2006-06-25 11:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i had amazing sex with my last SOB BF until i found him having amazing sex with another girl too
2006-06-25 11:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has little to do with sex.
Sex is a body function that feels good.
Love is something you do with your mind and heart.
You can have "amazing" sex with anyone.
2006-06-25 11:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by jymsis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks; doesn't it?
There's a tendency to substitute sex for intimacy. We long for the intimacy because THAT is what satisfies, but we settle for good sex.
2006-06-25 11:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋