2006-06-25 04:18:49 · 19 answers · asked by southrnbabe09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, beyond looks (killer eyes and smile... and then the rest), personality and sense of humor are big.
2006-06-25 04:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are things that men love about women? Whether you are religious or not, the following are what I think most guys want.
Submission: This is NOT being a slave like some might have you think, Biblical submission is letting the man make the final decision. A man likes to lead, let him. A good man will value the oppinions of his wife or girl. If he is wise and studied up on world events and biblical insights, he should be wise enough to answer most questions or do the right thing.
How many women gripe and complain to men, or butt heads with the man over decisions? Biblically, the man has the final say. No matter what the "experts" say, fighting is NOT healthy for a relationship! As the father says in the Disney version of Swiss family Robinson, speaking of his family when they are preparing to fight the pirates, "We only have a small army, we can only afford one general." This is so true about relationships and marriage! In the old time dances, the man was supposed to lead, if he didn't lead well, or the woman tried to lead, that's when feet would get stepped on and such. Man is supposed to lead in the relationship, not follow, if you are important to him, even if he is shy, he should want to be around you, and should make it so that he wants to be around you. Course this should not lead you to do anything immoral to please him, though.
Be courteous and quiet. Most men don't loud and boisterous women. Don't smoke or drink. Don't cuss. None of these things are particularly lady like, and smoking and drinking will affect haviing healthy kids. If you are planning to have kids, stop these things early so that you are not tempted to do so when pregnant, and as I said, they are not a turn on to men. At least not the type of man you would want a long term relationship with. As also a woman with a potty mouth is not going to gather the right kind of men for long term relationships either!
Don't be afraid to be a little weak. Yes, if you are 200 pounds and built like a brick wall, you may need to be the one who opens the pickle jar on occasion, but even if you are built like a 200 pound body guard, be sensitive! This falls in line with the submission spoken of above. Women should be the softer of the two sexes. Wear dresses and skirt, be feminine. Again, even if you are the muscle fitness champion of the world!
And play hard to get! Men do not usually respect the girl that gives herself to a man right away. Saving yourself for marriage will mean you will likely get him to the marriage alter rather than just "shacking up" together! Once you are married, that's different, your body is not your own then (as his is not his own any more) the right of marriage is that the partner should not have to work to get sex. Once married, if he wants it, give it to him, or if you want it, entice him all you want. Until then, shut that place up, and do not give it to him, no matter how much you might want to give it up! If a man REALLY wants a girl, he'll do what it takes to get her!
2006-06-25 14:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by CalKnight 4 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Hello Lady,What i look for in a Lady is...
Communication
Honesty
Out going
Sensual
Nice smile
Letting me do the cooking
And of course,Compatabilty...
And lastly.One that will not complain when i take off the suit and pull on my trusty Levis...
2006-06-25 11:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Sorry; you are wrong; guys cant help you
usually they don't comprehend these important affairs.
woman is manifestation of love and love is one of manifestation of god
don't worry they are looking for their god but they don't know
pay attention that you could donate GOD to your lover if he is not stupid
Thanks
2006-06-25 12:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Past the looks. I would say her attitude. Nothing better than a hottie that is also very smart and funny.
2006-06-25 11:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by bones54 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They love that you have a pulse and are breathing. Testostrone makes them 'love' just about anything female. Just be yourself and don't worry about the guys. They are here to do what they are suppose to do...make babies. That's it.
2006-06-25 11:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i actually look for a funny, sweet, good personality, smart, with a big heart , a girl that i respect and she respect me and at last cute
2006-06-25 11:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A girl that is cute,sweet and faithful.
2006-06-25 11:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
personality is important. that person has to make you feel good. And appearance. sure a pretty women will do much better.humour.
2006-06-25 11:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Doneplusmore 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personality, and intelligent some you can talk to sometimes.
2006-06-25 11:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by What the hell. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋