Someone help me?

Question

My boyfriend decided to let God into his life recently...but now he says we can't have sex because of this. I know that not doing is the right thing to do..but we have been doing it for a year. How do I go about this? How do we just stop doing it? Is it really that easy?

Answer 1

I've got the answer you want. Show this to your boyfriend. Tell him to check his bible again and read Leviticus 18. It doesn't say don't have sex with anyone unless you are married. It says nothing about making love to your own woman. This is what it says.....................P.S. It also says a man should have more than one wife. That's illegal in the United States. read on.....

Leviticus 18
1 The LORD told Moses
2 to tell the people of Israel: I am the LORD your God!
3 So don't follow the customs of Egypt where you used to live or those of Canaan where I am bringing you.
4 I am the LORD your God, and you must obey my teachings.
5 Obey them and you will live. I am the LORD.
6 Don't have sex with any of your close relatives,
7 especially your own mother. This would disgrace your father.
8 And don't disgrace him by having sex with any of his other wives.
9 Don't have sex with your sister or stepsister, whether you grew up together or not.
10 Don't disgrace yourself by having sex with your granddaughter
11 or half sister
12 or a sister of your father or mother.
13 (SEE 18:12)
14 Don't disgrace your uncle by having sex with his wife.
15 Don't have sex with your daughter-in-law
16 or sister-in-law.
17 And don't have sex with the daughter or granddaughter of any woman that you have earlier had sex with. You may be having sex with a relative, and that would make you unclean.
18 As long as your wife is alive, don't cause trouble for her by taking one of her sisters as a second wife.
19 When a woman is having her monthly period, she is unclean, so don't have sex with her.
20 Don't have sex with another man's wife--that would make you unclean.
21 Don't sacrifice your children on the altar fires to the god Molech. I am the LORD your God, and that would disgrace me.
22 It is disgusting for a man to have sex with another man.
23 Anyone who has sex with an animal is unclean.
24 Don't make yourselves unclean by any of these disgusting practices of those nations that I am forcing out of the land for you. They made themselves
25 and the land so unclean, that I punished the land because of their sins, and I made it vomit them up.
26 Now don't do these sickening things that make the land filthy. Instead, obey my laws and teachings.
27 (SEE 18:26)
28 Then the land won't become sick of you and vomit you up, just as it did them.
29 If any of you do these vulgar, disgusting things, you will be unclean and no longer belong to my people. I am the LORD your God, and I forbid you to follow their sickening way of life.
30 (SEE 18:29)



Good luck hun. We've got him now :)

Answer 2

This is good, and there's nothing wrong with your boyfriend finding God. Maybe you should too. Is your relationship built on sex....or is it on love? An old lady told me this one time, " love can wait 5 years, lust can't wait 5 minutes". Be patient, don't make him pick between you and God, because you just may lose. Anyway, don't stress, things will work themselves out in time. Best of luck to you............

Answer 3

the no sex thing probably won't last, he will miss it also. being a new christian sometimes makes you feel like you have been living a "bad" life. when he understands that god loves us no matter what he may change his mind. maybe you could ask him why no sex is so important. if this is something that he really feels strong about then you maybe you should listen to him, he doesn't want to disrespect you by continueing to have sex before you are married.

Answer 4

That's wonderful about your boyfriend, and obviously he is taking God's word seriously. What about you, what is your position regarding believing? Next, do you both love eachother? Have the two of you ever talked about marriage? As for going "without", as with any habit, it's difficult in the beginning, but it gets easier, especially for the woman. Also keep in mind there are many ways of showing physical affection. :)

Answer 5

i dont know ur boyfriend but u should try to support him in this cuz u will become something much bigger for him and he will wish to marry u and keep u in his life forever if u love him so just do it but if u dont let him go u will find someone for u who dont want God in his life and he will find a fine girl to marry.

Answer 6

OMG!! im sorry for you....but if you really care about him then you would respect his wishes..but at the same token you have needs too....ask him if petting or oral sex is acceptable or SOMETHING!!! you cant go on forever like this! good luck

Answer 7

go to a lonely place along with him and start talking to him.slowly start talking sex to him.tell him that u want him alone in life.slowly make him lie on ur chest and tell him u love him deeply.make him arouse his maleness.he will star reacting.go to a safe place and make him enjoy.do what he likes.I am sure he will change and be yours for all and make u happy."good luck"

Answer 8

well, if you like this guy, then it is going to better for both of you to respect his choice. it is not like he is involved with another girl. its god. if you have thought about marriage (with him i mean) then guess what, you have yourself a good man. if it is sex you want, then well, i guess you know the answer to that already...

Answer 9

If you really love him just respect his decision, but if he's just some good d!ck when you need, then breakup with him. But i would say to stay if you really like him, who knows you might even get married.

Answer 10

I think you should just talk to him about it cuz I mean you have needs also .So try talking it out