My ex bf has been the boy i have cared about for years. In the time we were together he tried getting with other girls, trash talked me in front of his friends, and basically used me for a quick lay. Even after all that i still find myself wanting to go back to him. I loved him very much and we did have some good times. I know that he is not good for me so how do i get over it all and move on?
2006-06-25 04:15:30 · 14 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you are in love with what could have been in stead of what was. Anyone who acts like that is a pig. He will continue to increase this behavior. Why would you want to waste your life on someone who used you for sex, made you a joke for his friends, and cheated on you? Does that sound like he values you at all? And falling at his feet when ever he thinks to come around isn't exactly asserting that you are worthy of being treated with respect. Anyone capable of doing these things, is not someone that you should let into your life. You only have one life, soul, and body and if you don't stick up for it no one else will
2006-06-25 04:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by nenasknight 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything. Time with people who REALLY care about you heals things faster. Believe it or not, you can choose who you love! But you must love yourself first...if you don't, no one else will! Ex-boyfriends are like an old pair of shoes, they are comfortable, familiar, but worn out just the same.Some people hate change so much that they put themselves through years of abuse...Love yourself more than that!
2006-06-25 04:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by timothybradley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put myself through something like that. It time to move on and you deserve better. An when you use ex. mean it . find someone that going to treat you the way you would like to be treated. Good luck.
2006-06-25 04:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by What the hell. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to hate him. There is no purpose to that. Find some new things to do. The way you were treated should be warning enough. Remember that and find a new boyfriend. There is no rush!!
2006-06-25 04:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Norm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep in mind that you deserve to be love back so if he can't give it to you, he doesn't deserve your love. you should love again and find the right man for you that can give you the love you deserve and dream of and someone that can make you truly happy and give respect. forget about him because you'll just wasting your love and time for the wrong person and also keep in mind that in the future, if he treated you like that, he'll be treating you worst than that more in the future so use also your mind and not only your heart, it should be balance because we also need to love ourselves.
2006-06-25 04:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put up with that for years, there isn't much hope for you. You'll be someone else's quick lay before long.
2006-06-25 04:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Stuart King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend now and stop crying over someone who totally disrespected you. You deserve better than that, don't you?
2006-06-25 04:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz don't take decision quickly.tell him to understand if he don'ts than do one thing meet with other boys and date with them infront of him give him a big thunder in his mind,then tell him what u were doin and for what...tell him that u were doin all this only for him becoz u want to make him how imp he is in ur life.this cud be good idea try it..................
2006-06-25 04:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a rebound guy....someone whom you would never be with....and then enjoy some time for yourself...pick up a new hobby that you can really enjoy...good luck!!
2006-06-25 04:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never want someone that does not want you!
That is too much work!
2006-06-25 04:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by M J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋