Last night i had this dream where my boyfriend (soon to be husband) had nurses hittting on him at the hospital he works at. My boyfriend has one more year of medical school left, and then he will be doing his intern/residency at a hospital. I'm soooo scared that i might loose him because he might find someone better than me when hes working at the hospital. He tells me I'm the one he wants to marry, but sometimes as time goes by people change. I know its just a dream, but im scared that it might actually happen. Please help me to deal with this!!
2006-06-25 04:01:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mellow out woman-damn.......If he does fall for someone else then was he really all that great to begin with? If you want to spend the rest of your days with this guy you shouldn't have to worry about stuff lilke that at all.....ever
2006-06-25 04:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by guitardan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm an RN and not all the nurses are like that. Actually many medics are the ones that hit on the nurses. If he wants to marry you I don't see why something like that is scaring you. There's always a risk that something may go wrong but it is not because he is gonna be a medic but because that's human nature. Give each other time every day no matter what your jobs require...that usually works. Do not Preoccupied marriage is full of challenges but is also filled with fulfilling experiences. Do you know their coworkers? You could go and visit him at the hospital, take your place and ask him to give you yours at his work place. If a nurse hits on him is because he lets her do so....if he stops her the first time she will stop. But you can always talk to her. The best thing is that you know this because he told you so....your the chosen one.
2006-06-25 04:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by wilmarynazario69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there I know exactly what you mean i have had the same thing happen to me before. The dream simbolyzies (xcusse the spelling) Your insecuritys towards you relationship and or yourself either you would do something like that and you are afraid he will to or you are just down rite scared i know this isnt the best answer to your question as i havent really answerd it but he is willing to marry you devote his whole life to you till death do you part and if you dont trust him you will be living your whole life in doubt.
Sorry for the poor answer I did try thou : )
2006-06-25 04:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by kaotic_missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe. Dreams have nothing to do with reality. Some say they are our subconcious trying to tell us things. But I think in your case you are binge thinking =) When we over analyse a situation we tend to forget how tivial then situation was, making a moutain out of a mole hill. Do you Love your Boyfriend? Do you trust him? If the answers to these are yes, then stop worrying. He has said he wants you, and no one else, so believe him. It's so common to worry about things like this. But believe me, people may change, but love is for a lifetime.
Be Happy, and don't worry =D
2006-06-25 04:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by TeH_InPaTiEnT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the dream because of your fears. This happens quite often.
You must understand that if this man truly loves you it would make no difference how many women hit on him. He will always come home to you.
The only thing you can do is try to not give into this fear. And show him how much you love him at every opportunity.
If you continually show him you don't trust him you will drive him away. Don't do that.
2006-06-25 04:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you have very little self esteem. You can't worry about it. Just enjoy being together. If it happens, you can handle it, if it doesn't you can handle it as well. You are focusing on the wrong thing. Instead of thinking about him, think about yourself. Concentrate on things that you like to do for yourself. It could be hanging out with your girlfriends, reading a book, getting your hair done, doing volunteer work etc...
2006-06-25 04:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by icejan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a dream, relax it just means youre scared. I've had alot of weird dreams, and so have other people where what happened in the dream had nothing to do with what it actually meant.
2006-06-25 04:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some self confidence!! My goodness! He says that he loves you and is patient when you tell him that he is going to leave you for dream nurses that are "better than you"...you are going to have to take his word on it. You are only worth as much as you think you are...constantly pointing out how unworthy you are is very unflattering and exhausting for the other person. Chill out....if he loves you..he loves you
2006-06-25 04:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by nenasknight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a pretty high percentage of medical personnel that do in fact leave their relationship once they have accomplished their degree.
also workplace flirting will always happen no matter what his profession.
you just have to relax and trust him, if he cheats or dumps you then he is not the guy for you anyway.
don't stress him or you will push him away for sure.
2006-06-25 04:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW THE FEELING,MY BOY FRIEND WORKS AT MTS IN ASHLAND,KY AND I HAVE A FEELING HE IS CHEATING ON ME AND I ASK HIM BUT HE KEEPS TELLING ME THAT HE LOVES ME AND I AM EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD TO HIM,BUT THERE IS TIMES I DON'T BELIEVE HIM.SO HANG IN THERE GIRL AND IF HE LEAVES YOU FOR SOMEONE AT THE HOSPITAL JUST THINK THIS THOUGHT "IF HE LEFT YOU FOR HER THEN HE WILL LEAVE HER FOR ANOTHER WHEN SHE MAY COME ALONG" AND I SAY IF I CATCH HIM THEN IF I DO NOT LIKE THE GIRL I WILL KICK HER *** AND HIS TOO RIGHT ON THE MTS PARKING LOT.
2006-06-25 05:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by Rita F H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋