Do women ask guys out anymore??

Question

I think iam an attractive person....I use to get hit on,asked out,whats your number type stuff.....It just seems to be different now.
Its tuff to even know if a women is interested or checking you out?
no hints or clues...

Answer 1

I think it's becoming less acceptable again for women to ask men. Not saying that they won't do it. But they're kinda seein (after experimenting with it for a couple decades) that quite often it doesn't work out. Those are my thoughts....

Answer 2

maybe cuz women now are more independant and not all women find men as something they NEED anymore. so they just cant be bothered to drop hints? or... maybe women now learnt that they are worth much more, and men should rightfully the one who does the asking.

OR... maybe the time when u usually get hit on was when u were 18 and the girls were 14-16, u know, times when they're most playful and daring when it comes to expressing their feelings and etc... while now, u're facing women that are much older, and much more matured and sophisticated. much more classy. women that dont go around acting desperate or being too forward.

oh i dont know. women are complicated creatures. im one, but god knows what the others are thinking! and yes, some still ask men out. good luck.

Answer 3

See woman find it sweet and are impressed when a guy asks us out. We know how hard it is to take that first step. But see after we made ourselfs more dominate, guys chickened out on us. Became weak and make us do all the work. So were backing off, letting the guys get more of their old role. I really liked my now bf and just got so fed up waiting for him to ask me out that i finally did it myself and of course use that against him as often as possible.

So stop acting all weak and impress a girl for a change.....ask her out!!

Answer 4

Heck knows all i know is a girl who likes me and i can tell well lets just say im not the type of person to dive in and ask her out. Most the time i think after all the pain and suffering from rejection And lonliness that i just got over is it worth it ? To suffer all that again ? No so i dont bother asking girls even if they ask me ill just reject them. I was done with girls a long time ago.this is why.

Answer 5

I don't think that you just sit back wait for women to ask you out anymore because you seem a bit cocky. Now its all about making eye contact and being flirtatious(not too much). Oh but don't think that women aren't checking you out. They just want you to force the issue.

Answer 6

I have asked guys out before and it was cool. Some were successful and some were not. I think in America we are stuck in tradition. Unfortunately, some girls could be missing out on some great guys, who would be too shy to ask a girl out. I think it might not be a really big deal who asked who out. Does it really matter? Good luck to you.....

Answer 7

yes woman still ask guys out. but most of the time they like messing with your mind so they kind of tease you like, they flirt then when they see u interested they pretend to be not interested then the guy gets confused and the girl just stands there waiting for you to ask her out. or maybe they just think your and ugle @ss and they dont want to ask a whore like you out. Just a suggestion though.

Answer 8

Yes they do, but a lot are getting fed up with asking first and would like the guys to start asking again!!

Answer 9

oh they r checkin u out.but frackly we enjoy mor seein u guyz doin all d chasin n flatterin we like it.and anywayz to b turned down a woman takes it more personally then d guy.so the law of venus is if u r interested u wod com 2 me.

Answer 10

Yes, we do, but it takes a very confident woman to do that. Sometimes we'd like the guy to make the first move.