This is kinda a personal question, but i don't know who else to ask..?

Question

okay, i was at a party went to a closset with the guy, i was drunk so everything is kinda blurry, i remember making out with him and then i though he was fingering me but it kinda hurt. later i went to teh bathroom (im a virgin) and saw a little bit of blood. so then i started to worry if i had sex with him. i asked him and he said i cant remember. then 8 days later my boobs feel really sensitive. the next day (today) they still feel really sensitive. i heard that was one of the first signs of pregenancy. so heres the question... 1) do you think i even had sex with him? and 2) what are the first signs of prenancy? i dont know if im worrying over nothing or if i need to take a P. test.... its driving me crazy though!

i am supposed to start my period in about a week, is it too early to get a pregnancy test? is it impossiable to start feeling pregnancy symptons this early (sore boobs, feeling sick,etc.)

how likey is it that he broke my hym while fignering me?

Answer 1

If you see a doctor she can tell you if it looks like you actually had sex or not. Was your hymen broken? The doc can tell you. Take the P test. It will make you feel better if you are not and if you are you should know now. First signs of pregnancy? Well have you been feeling a little sick at your stomach? Are you very tired?

Good luck and try and be more careful at the next party.

Answer 2

wow ok. you need to get a "pee-on-it" pregancy test. Just to make sure if you really are pregnant. it doesnt really sound like you knew what you were doing that night, and it was probably a mistake if you went into the closet with him when you were drunk. You might not be pregant though, because if the blood you saw was your period, then it means it was too late for the egg to be furtilized and it had already passed thourgh your body. You should estill take a test though. It also doesnt sound like you guys are a couple, which means if you are pregant this could mean trouble. Most guys have a really hard time excepting that they are a dad. Of course, you could always just have an abortion, but thats taking a baby's life away. If you arent pregant, then you really need to consider yourself very lucky. and think about these things next time

1)next time you have sex, even when your drunk, you need to USE PROTECTION!

2) dont have sex when your drunk! you can make some really bad mistakes when your drunk

3) think about what just happened, and say to yourself "do i really want to go through that again?"

4) just think through everything and all your choices

if you are pregant, its ok. you dont really find out if you are pregant or not until about 6 weeks after it happens. so if you are thinking you are feeling signs, it may just be something else. but take a pregancy test anyway. God Bless You and possibly your new Baby.

Answer 3

First of all, stop drinking. You are obviously too immature to handle the alcohol and its consequences. In fact, drinking at your age is illegal anyway.

Second, you may have been bleeding because of his fingers only, maybe he had a sharp fingernail or something. Go and see a doctor to confirm whether or not you are still a virgin. Accept that your doctor will most likely lecture you on safe sex and you deserve to be lectured. Take the free condoms graciously and if you must have sexual relations then use them!!!

Third, a week is a little bit early for sensitive nipples. You are probably going to have your period. Sensitive nipples can come from PMS. It's too early for a urine test, so you can ask the doctor for a blood test.

Fourth, good luck.

Answer 4

Believe me get a pregnancy test as soon as possible! you sound pregnant to me and im speaking from experience!

Also other pregnancy symptons are hot sweats, sore boobs and going off say your favourite food - little things like that

I also dont beleive that you are a virgin anymore - you really should watch how much you drink in the future

Answer 5

I think you should take the test immediately! Now i bet you believe that it was a mistake to go a party and get drunk and it also sounds like pregnancy. So don't waste any time.

Answer 6

i've had some serious drunks in my long life but i cant ever say that i had sex without knowing i had sex............i think this is a b/s question as im sorry but a person knows when they screw unless they were passed out and if thats the case then get a pregnancy test and call the cops cause thats just wrong.

Answer 7

Go get a test asap then you will know one way or another - If you are, the longer you leave it the less options you have.

I hope everything turns out well for you and go easy with the `Fun Juice` at the next party.

Answer 8

Get tested right away don't wast time . And well your add it get test for STD's and AIDS too. Its better to be safe than sorry.Never go to party's alone,all way have some one to watch your back so you don't do something you regret later.Never get so drunk that you cant remember.....and yes i think it possible you could be pregnant ....my friend got pregnant the very first time she did it ........

Answer 9

yes girl i know this is really hard for u but its better if u just take a pregnancy test.and oh by the way guys r not that forgetful.........he just dosent want to admit it........corner him.and all the best.you must stand firm and do the right thing im sure all the girls out there including me support ur descision
love rochelle
ps.my id is [e-mail] me if u wanna

Answer 10

I can't tell you if you had sex with him, the best thing to do would be to go to the drugstore and get a home pregnancy test. when you go to the gyn you can find out from him if you are a virgin or not.