recently my boyfriend I met online is cold to me,he has not talked with me or sent emails to me for one month.but he said he didn't have others,just busy,but he is really cold to me.he will not say any sweet words to me any more.when I said"I love you"to him,he just answered"thanks".he even warned me not to write or call him,because he doesn't have free time.when I saw him online and used webcam with others,I really hurt and I could not help asking,he was very angry with me,now he has deleted me from the list.I cannot know how he is now.I miss him so much,I want to call him,but I am afraid he will think I want to bother him again.should I call him?because he is in melbourne,it is cold now,I want to tell him to take care and keep warm.
what should I do now?
thanks for everyone!!!
2006-06-25 03:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by honeylinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry about this, but I have to tell ya Ur wasting your time hoping that he will come back to you. He has made it more then clear that he doesn't want to stay in touch, if he's deleting your emails, telling u not to call him anymore then what more can u do
You say after him telling u all this and u saw him on line this means he looking for some else( like I said he's not worth it)
You also said u miss him , that's normal, but u need to let go( he has) and u need to stop worrying about if he's keeping warm( he's not concern it Ur doing the same)
Funny u should say he's been cold to you lately and ur hoping he's keeping warm( Who cares if he warm and taking care)
He's a coldhearted guy who told u not to call or email, says : Thanks" when u told him you loved him, then he deletes u from his list( Im sure he blocked u 2) So why should u care about someone who treats u like this, I;m sure he's keeping warm ( with whoever ) and he may treat her the same.
Sweetie from one woman to another. Move on to someone who will not do this to you, move on to someone who will say "I Love You Too" ( and mean it) when u say to him I love you.
Move on to a guy who will welcome you calls and emails with a smile, move on to a guy who's local and who will want to be with you so much u don't have to call or email him because your together so much.
Move on to a guy who has a warm heart and will keep U warm.
2006-06-25 03:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. Now I don't mean this in a mean way, ask your self why he has done this, maybe you said something that hit a soft spot, or you want to go to fast and he does not, maybe he is not sure of himself. Who knows but it is your job to find out. Call when you think you know how you can help. Don't just call to say goodbye. Good luck I hope this helps
2006-06-25 03:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rada2017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont call him. Let it go.. as hard as it will be. Find someone else. He obviously doesnt want any contact. There is someone out there that is worthy of your love and affection. Dump him off your list and get on with your life. Good Luck!
2006-06-25 03:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's like my problem i don't know what should i do ? We met 1 day per week it's great but i can an appointment with him cause he will online when he want to talk with me only . He doesn't care me He know i wait but he still offline. i told him about the time that i'll online but i never see him. Someday i still wait all day all night . i try to do everything if that make me see him.
PLs suggestion me WHAT SHOULD I DO
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2006-06-25 03:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP that @$$ hole! you dont need to take that $h!t!!! you are way better than that. call him, (to pi$$ him off) and then dump him (to make him even MORE mad) good luck
ps--there is probably someone else in the relationship that he's not telling you about..
2006-06-25 03:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by **rachelle** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he totally blew you off. some guys are jerks. i wouldn't worry about him keeping warm since obviously he is not worried about you. worry about yourself and eventually a guy will come along that wants to keep YOU warm!
2006-06-25 03:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes blowing you off...you need to sit his butt down one on one and ask him what is up...good luck
2006-06-25 03:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and blow him off and tell him you never talk to him again
2006-06-25 03:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by lexus h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find someone else online.
2006-06-25 03:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Walter L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
2006-06-25 03:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋