Only honest answers. do not bother with trying to not hurt my feelings. I want to know what it is women find attractive. Please no answeres like "a pulse". I really want to know.
2006-06-25 02:26:07 · 9 answers · asked by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your respose to the "Finding your soul" question is what I find attractive in a man. A man who is in tune with himself; Knows how to be introspective, and openly express that introspection.
I like that you can separate yourself from your cell phone... It is attractive that you can enjoy a healthy, "legal" way to have fun and recharge. Keep being your authentic self. THAT is most attractive!! Charm is deceitful, looks fade, but an honest heart is gold through and through.
2006-06-25 07:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by konachai 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love eyes.. they're really captivating, and i think they are what draw people to you.. my bf has gorgeous eyes.. they were the first thing i was drawn to when i saw him for the first time.. the most important thing to me though is personality.. there is nothing more important than that, because without it.. well the person might as well be dead. A sense of humour is always important, honesty is necessary, and i look for this thing i've only been able to find in one guy... this real feeling of comfort.. i feel it's really necessary to be able to feel comfortable with the guy u love... i've never really felt this sense of comfort with anyone else, but the one person i DO feel comfortable with is my bf :) hope that explains a little... there is so much else i take into consideration, but they are the basics... some girls though... well to be blatent, the skanky/ slutty ones wont give a crap about personality, just looks, but looks arent real important as u can find a guy who's really good looking, but has no personality what so ever. my first aim is personality, but i'm just lucky enough to have found a guy who is not only, sweet as anything, but also the most gorgeous thing on this planet.. in my opinion anyway :P
2006-06-25 02:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by bellydancer_1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm here because of your answer about finding your soul. I don't know how old you are, but as women get older, we tend to place more value on the intangibles in a man. Character, humor, intelligence, spirituality...it all comes down to finding a man who wants his wife/lover to be his best friend.
Stop worrying about what the women are looking for...most women who are actively "looking" are not what you want (unless, of course, you're just horny.) Asking this question sounds like you want to make yourself into a laundry list of desireable attributes.
Negative ghostrider. YOU look for what YOU want in a woman, and she will have found what she is looking for in a man.
2006-06-25 07:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by TNorth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John :) If you want to know how women really choose men, don't bother asking us women. :)
Cuz when it comes to relationships, women are in charge of the selection process because they control access to sexuality, they let men "in",so you'd think they'd know exactly why and how they choose their partners.
But the problem is, we LIE. We lie to men; We lie to ourselves (and we are perfectly capable of believing our own lies). :p
If you ask any woman what she's looking for in a man, she'll come out with a long list of ennobling qualities: a sense of humor; a guy who's nice to her and treats her well; good values; a strong moral character bla bla bla.
The most important reality u can understand about our behavior is this: never pay attention to what we say, watch what we actually do.
2006-06-25 03:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Laurash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it's someone who makes me feel like I'm something special.
I met a guy once (who was nothing special in the looks department) by him elbowing his friend a & saying "So who is this, so introduce us already! ." He spent the rest of the evening at my side.
If I had only been into looks I would have missed a very special evening and a wonderful man.
2006-06-25 04:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by lover of the ocean waves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends it can be his smile or his eyes or it could be by the way he treats you when you just call him to say hi i personally think that a guy could be down right ugly but if he treats you right then thats what counts and as long as your happy you is good and by the way some of us dont lie i am very truthful when it comes down to it i dont play w/ ppl emotions find out for yourself kukivera@yahoo.com
2006-06-25 04:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who is obviously intelligent by what he says...has a kind look in his eyes when he smiles...and looks at me with a certain look that says he feels he would enjoy touching me all over.
2006-06-25 06:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sage P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly make me laugh,secondly treat me like a lady, bye me flowers, hold the door open, tell me how beautiful i look and im all yours, be confident but not too much,and make em laugh
2006-06-25 02:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Madonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confident, nice abs and firm butt
2006-06-25 02:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by caribbeangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋