I have been knowing this guy for three months, I know it has not been along time, but last week we had sex. It happened spontanteously. It seems as if we both had wanted it. I do like him and I feel that he do like me. He calls and check on me. Sometimes, I do not call him. I wait for him to call me to see if he really likes me or not. I do like him and I want to have a relationship with him. I do nice things for him to show that I care about him and want to grow on to him. He tells me that he's glad that I am there for him and helps him out in whatever way I could. He also said that maybe oneday, I'll be a special person in his life. I dont know what to do? Should I make a move or should I let things fall into place. I dont want to rush into things. He seems to be a great guy but, I dont not want to speak so soon. It seems as if we correspond and click together. We have so much in common. What should I do?
2006-06-25 02:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by Hope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should talk to him about it but dont pressure him in to anything at let it come slowly if its ment to be it will happen. make sure you let him know how you feel.
2006-06-25 02:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've described it sounds like you're doing all the giving and he's doing all the taking and then just kind of tossing out a "maybe some day..." at you every once in a while so that he can have you on reserve for whenever he wants you around.
But maybe I'm wrong.
I think if you back off completely you'll be able to see if he really seeks you out because he wants you around and genuinely wants to be with you, but if you stop calling him and he doesn't try looking for YOU, you'll see it was one-sided.
Good luck!
2006-06-25 09:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would have made things a whole lot easier if you had waited to have sex with him. If you didn't have sex with him then you could have just told him how you feel about him. BUT since you did have sex, you can't just go off and tell him that you like him. Now you must wait for him to make a move on you.
2006-06-25 09:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopping in the sack so soon has labelled you as an easy lay.He probably wonders how many other blokes have had such an easy route. If he wants it again you might see him again,but really honey you're just a notch on the ol' belt and he's outta there!
2006-06-25 09:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Wise Owl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all sounds great and i would let it fall into place. but i would hope your already a special someone to him since you have had sex. but i know what he means i just hate it when they dont think first because for myself i would have thought why aint i already a special someone in his life but...that could just be me. sounds like he is a great guy and makes you happy. just be careful and safe. good luck
2006-06-25 09:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things "fall in to place". If you two are meant to be together, someday you will be. If you have so much in common, it will happen. Good luck to the two of you!
2006-06-25 09:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not ready to hav a relationship then, i found that you should just let things fall into place...it works better...
2006-06-25 09:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Ashley*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby with u'r attiude he will belive that he is not welcomed so try to call him maby he will be suprised since u never did it then from his respons u'll know what to do
2006-06-25 09:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Reasonable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure than you don't become pregnant before marrying him.
2006-06-25 09:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... just do whatever you want to do...
but one thing to keep in mind.. keep detached yourself from your emotional...
sometimes emotion can be tricky...
just take things easy...
if he's the one then okay...
if he's not the one, it's also okay...
=)
2006-06-27 01:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋