HELp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

okay.i have a girlfriend. and the other day i saw my ex girlfriend. we're still friends. i sorta wanna get back together.
then she kissed me! i'm really confused. i don't know what to do!!!!!!
need help!!!!!!

Answer 1

You poor kid. I hope it was just a friendly kiss. If not, you must decide one over the other. You will also need to tell whichever that you are not going to see her anymore ("I'm sorry, but I just don't think this is working out" or "I *really* can't see you any longer, as I already have a girlfriend). DO NOT do this any other way than face-to-face (can't tell you how many times I've seen girls becoming basket cases over a BF who dumped her via phone or text).

Answer 2

This isn't fair to your current girlfriend, & I'm betting she deserves better. You should probably let her know so she can find someone who will be faithful to her. This is just one of the reasons being friends with an ex doesn't work. So, if you do have a conscience, you should probably let your girlfriend know what happened & apologize for what you've done to her. She'll probably break up with you, & then you can pursue your ex with a clearer conscience. Your ex who has proven she has no respect for your current relationship, & therefore, no respect for you. Then, you will quickly find out if she wanted you back, or just didn't want to see you happy with someone else & played you for a fool.

Answer 3

it depends on who u really like don't keep one as a spare that is just wrong because what if they bump into each other and get talking?

Now if u truly feel more for ur ex let your girlfriend know that you feel like the relationship is headed in a different direction then u feel it should.

Now if u feel more for ur gf tell ur ex it was inappropriate and rude when you have a relationship going on, don't be rude just say I don't feel it was right for u 2 do that especially when I'm engaged in a relationship I am happy and comfortable about.

Answer 4

okay. i m here 4 a help. but i really cn just suggest. u have 2 do whatever u feel. ammm........ get ur ex-gf back coz he was ur gf already n u need nt let urself known 2 her n comparing 2 the new 1 she has already spent much time with u. soooo better if u dont play with the new 1. still i said na i cn just suggest. but dude the decision has 2 be urs. hope u take a gud n perfect decision

Answer 5

From my experiences ex's are ex's for a reason. It's almost impossible to go back. Most of the time if you get back together then those same reasons you broke up in the first place will be there again.

Answer 6

What does your heart say mate? Listen to your heart not your head. You can't help how you feel. Whoever you leave let her down gently. Ask to remain friends and show her that you still respect her as a person. I feel sorry for you mate. Thats a tough situation. Good Luck! Let us know the outcome.

Answer 7

Basically, you compare your current girlfriend with your ex girlfriend and see which one you like the best or which one makes you happier. Then you get or stay with that one.

Answer 8

if you're still in love with your ex and she loves you back, then you can't be friends...it's too hard to be afriend with someone that you used to or still in love with. so if you still have feeling for her, and obviously she has feeling for you too then you should talk about it.. be open and honest. if you still stand a chance to be together then you should do it before it's too late.And just be honest with your girlfriend and about your feelings...but don't dare hurt her or do something behind her back...hope this will be helpful...good luck

Answer 9

Its easy, get your priorities straight and figure out who you really care about, not just sexually, but also emotionally. Don't play the girls, its not fair and I'm sure it wouldn't bode well with you if the tables were turned. Give it some thought and be honest with them and yourself.

Answer 10

U got a kiss frm ur ex !
Go back dude !