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Question

I m Married and my husband wants kids but i am not interested to be pregnant now, not for atleast 2 years.Can anyone please suggest me if there is any way not to get pregnent even after havin g sexual intercourse.

Answer 1

go to your doctor he will advise you of the best method of birth control for your situation

Answer 2

but i cant really say much to help with out knowing some more things like where u are from y u had to get an arranged marrage what ur religeion is and what ur orgen is cause i know how alot of that stuff matters in many different cases so i would need to know alot more first yeah devorce ur husband cause he sounds very controling and stufff. but other than birth control try shots. and nothing is 100% effective. so u just out of luck. y not have kids theres nothing wrong with it im 21 my husband is 25 and we have 2 boyd 14months old and 1 month old. and thay are the greatest thing to us besides each other. what are u one of them religeions that belive in arranged marrages.. wake up to the real world does anyone really do them still to this day i know ppl that belive in that stuff but thay didnt go threw with the arranged marrage. y force a person to marry someone that thay either dont know or are not interested in marrage is supposed to be specal. i always thought in the arranged marrages that the ages were the same or close not so far apar like urs with 12 yrs apart. i have known ppl to have arranged marrages and thay were the same age or a year or two apart but not 12 yrs. but i see where he is coming from on wanting kids cause ya know he aint the youngest and by the time the kid is ur age u will 40-41 yrs old and he will be 52-53 yrs old. so ya know think of all ur possabilitys and stuff but remember no form of birth control is 100% accuret. but if u would like to talk some more about this or any thing elts feel free to email me or message me at
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Answer 3

Many people have become parents by "surprise" or by "accident" -- my mom tells me I was definitely not planned! And many -- like my mom and dad -- will tell you that their "unexpected" children have been a blessing. I don't personally think there is any such thing as truly being "ready" for parenthood. Still, since you do have the power to control (as much as possible) when (and if) you become pregnant, and because you've already expressed that you do NOT personally feel "ready" to be a parent, I feel that you are making a wise decision in waiting to have children, and in taking the steps necessary to ensure that you do not become pregnant until you *do* feel ready.

It's important that you talk to your gynecologist or family doctor about what birth control options are best suited for you.

Some key factors to consider when choosing birth control methods include:

* your age
* your current health condition & past medical history (including
any pregnancies carried/not carried to term)
* your lifestyle, habits, and relationships
* your future plans (regarding children/family)
* your insurance coverage


You can educate yourself on the different types of birth control methods by going to the website I listed in the sources area.

Be sure you and your husband talk openly and honestly about children. Communicate to him that you are simply not ready to take the leap into parenthood just yet. Hopefully, he will not pressure you into such an important responsibility until you both feel that it's right. If he loves you and truly wants to have children with you, two years shouldn't be too long to wait!

I wish you BOTH the very best of luck and hope that when you do become parents, you enjoy a lifetime of happiness with the family you create! :)

Answer 4

The day after pill also works however it is not recommended to use all the time, it is more like an emergency pill.
However if you are not ready to make a family with your spouse you need to talk to him, and let him know that you want to wait two more years until you start your family, and he should respect your wishes if not then you should think twice about having sex while unprotected at this time.

Answer 5

Use birth control, such as pills, or shots. But you should be honest with your husband and let him know your feelings. If not then this may cause a rift between the two of you.

Answer 6

The pill or condoms are really the only way. You really should talk to your husband and tell him you don't want children yet. If you are married you should be able to discuss this with him.

Answer 7

The Pill

Answer 8

use the pill and he should wear the condom. just to be safer, i have a friend who got married last year and both didnt want a child and she was on the pill but she still got pregnant, strong swimmers i guess. but now theyre happy they having a child and waiting for the baby girl to be born.

Answer 9

hello there are many ways to prevent have a pregnancy.. the pill, depo shot not recommend from me.. i didn't do well on it. the IUD, condoms, and have your hubby pull out before he .....maybe your hubby wants to have kids for a reason, have you talked with him why he wants kids now and doesn't want to way the two years your asking for? if god blesses you with a child now or later cherish it for as long as you shall live, children are the greatest things on earth.. my favorite saying is "people who want to have children cant and people who can not care for children have 10 of them"..best of luck

Answer 10

Use "the patch", you can't feel it and you change it once a week and its as effective as the birth control pill.
But I think "the patch" might have been banned in the states, you might have to check it out with your family doctor.