Why do I always wind up on the bad side of other pagans that I meet?

Question

I keep my guard up untill I'm comfortable in a situation and by that time Im labeled a Troublemaker or Troll. Next thing I know, there's a conspiracy against me and youngins are testing me for no apparent reason. I used to know people that you had best keep your guard up around, it takes time to realize that not everyone is a treacherous vampire like the guys I used to know.

Answer 1

Welcome to the club. hehehe... Just make it entertaining and don't worry about what the Fluffies are doing. They don't get very far in their actions anyway... most of them only have an attention span of about 2 minutes.

Answer 2

There's no way to really answer this without knowing specific situations. Sometimes, people just take a dislike to one another for no apparent reason. There's no reason to let that make you unhappy, though. Just keep trying to find others to connect to. One small bit of advice is not to try to appear to know more than you do. That could be a reason for dislike/hostility. Even if you are very knowledgeable, sometimes you have to keep quiet to keep the peace.

Answer 3

Pagans as a general rule don't talk pagan, if you talk about it too much (because of the great diversity of ideas that comprise "pagans") they are probably not interested in your opinions. Even though you both are "pagans". So they dis you.

Answer 4

Ah...because you were never meant to be a pagan. I have seen this before !!

so you better give it up, or one of these days you are going to be so very embarrassed when they get together and throw you out.
Better to leave now, on your own terms

Answer 5

destiny. Maybe you'd be inclined to befriend the wrong people and do wrong. I think you're religious of some sort because otherwise you'd get on better... so I just say ignore them.

Answer 6

maybe you rub them up the wrong way,, maybe your not meant to hang with pagans.

Answer 7

Maybe you're not pagan enough.