Hi, me and this guy are friends and have been flirting for months and both really like each other, we finally got it together last night and selpt together, it was fantastic, I know men sometimes go off women when they get what they want, i.e sex, is this right or will he be thinking about me more now?
2006-06-24 23:25:22 · 20 answers · asked by Soso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes this can be the case.
But you and your new lover have been flirting and getting to know each other for "months". That's a long time for a guy to hang with a girl just for a quickie.
I think maybe you are at the beginning of a beautiful relationship. Just keep it chill, don't pressure him too much for a commitment, and don't be too quick to "do it" again. Let his desires for you build before you sleep together again.
good luck!
2006-06-24 23:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by bogart_that 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, was it worth taking the chance? Just curious, because with young people it can go either way. If he is just interested in making conquests, then you will be another notch on his headboard, dashboard or someone else that gets their reputation trashed because "she gave it up".
I am an older lady, your question is vague; so I do not have any idea how old you are or how mature your partner may be or how he will behave now that the 2 of you have "done the deed". I hope that you remember to use protection when you surrender to your passions, (or maybe I should say you should insist that your partners use condoms...they make mint flavored ones for obvious reasons.
I hope things go well for you, and that he is a nice guy who will not use you. Maybe if this does not work out well for you, you should try to keep your panties on a little while longer with the next man who shows an interest in you. Sometimes if you really get to know a person before you have sex with them, it can be the act that seals the relationship, instead of putting you in this type of "iffy" situation! Make a man work for it, make him buy dinner, jewelry, a house and whisper plenty of sweet "somethings" for it! We are talking about your intimacy, you at your most vulnerable! Take care of your sexuality that it does not become something you use in desperation, your body should be a treasure, saved for the best man you ever meet! A lot of men are looking for a girl who will do it, but they don't usually look for her when they want to settle down and have a life and a family or a steady girl that their friends will see them with, because they may have been with her too, and that can get embarrassing!
Oh what's that? You felt hot? So get yourself a toy! Some guys will only take advantage of your natural urges...Take care with your body! It's not like giving someone a piece of cake, in fact he should taste your cooking before he ever gets in your pants. Just my opinion, please be careful and do not become a statistic of the Health Department, by catching a Sexually Transmitted Disease. Or get careless and catch a death sentence from HIV or Hepatitis C. No sex is good enough to trade your precious life for.
Good luck!
2006-06-25 07:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie_msw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the man...if you felt it was amazing, then the chances are he will too....but he might only be after you for sex, in which case, he'll use you for that and that only. BUT....if you really have something going on, then i reckon youll know about it...look out for the signs....does he call you or do you have to call him all the time...does he rarely answer the phone so you have to leave messages all the time...has he asked you out on a date? has he bought you any flowers yet?? does he flirt with other girls? just be aware of the signs and DONT declare your undying love and start looking at wedding gown catalogues....he'll run a mile....trust me...im a man!
2006-06-25 09:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting or dating for months? if it was the first time you met then the risk of him going off you is higher than if you have kept him waiting and wanting for while. However if you have a lot in common and both had a very high expectation that you have both exceeded then I am sure you will both be very happy - and satisfied!
2006-06-25 06:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by DynamoDave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not a flirty type of guy who looks for mainly one thing, then he probably will be thinking about you more. If he really already was a friend of yours, then you should know the answer. If you don't know him really well, and are mainly an acquaintance, then he may just think that you are easy.
2006-06-25 06:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by cindy4501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are different. When i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend i was so affraid that he would leave me soon... I used to belive in that, because i have experienced that before, But after the most wonderful sex with my bf few months ago.. I realised that people differ... He wanted me more and i felt that he started to respect me and trust me more....
Good Luck for u
2006-06-25 06:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by minx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again you the only one who can answer this question, you should know how he feels about you.
If he really loves you, you will be more in his thoughts right now more than ever, and he will want more of you and to spend evry minute of his life with you.
If he only wanted sex with you, he got what he wanted
2006-06-25 06:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by mysps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex comes as a completation of a relationship...if he loves you, he loves for who you are, not because he can make sex with you...He can think over and over at last night, he can explore you in his mind right now...but if he loves you...he will want to be forever with you...
2006-06-25 06:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by ota marmota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll be thinking of you every 2 minutes whether you are present or not and hoping to get back together again.
2006-06-25 06:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it entirely depends on his personality, but if he's just a flirty friend then that would have been nothing more than sex to him,but if he wanted to be with you then he will let you know! good luck and always follow you heart!!
2006-06-25 06:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by geri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋