theres this guy who lives in the opposite house to mine .
its been 7 to 8 months that everyday he comes on his roof or out in his room from where my house is fully visible and keeps seeing me .
i use to ignore him but know he keeps staring at me sometimes he acts to get my attention but i m afraid of looking at him although i want to cause i have started liking him i keep thinking of him the whole day i like him watching me . but i dont have a way of letting him know that i feel the same as he feels for me . none of us have ever talked with each other . so help me out for should i look at him when he is staring at me n pass smile or should i wait for his act????????????????????????????
2006-06-24 22:38:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love based on GOD last for ever, u can read this book "Boy meets girl"
Which talks about the story of how the auther met and married his wife, Shannon. Where Harris's first book encouraged readers to throw off modern ideas of romantic fixation, Boy Meets Girl goes to the next level and urges single Christian men and women to pursue courtship, and ultimately marriage, thoughtfully and prayerfully. Knowing that many readers will balk at the idea of premeditated courtship, Harris insists that dating should not be emotional recreation but rather a careful decision rooted in obedience to God. While the anecdotes used to reveal true-to-life scenarios about dating pitfalls are somewhat elementary (and geared to those in their 20s), Harris succeeds in hammering home the point that obedience to God's word, selfless love, community, purity, and satisfaction in God are the most important aspect of any relationship. The last section of the book is particularly practical, discussing forgiveness of past sexual sin, questions to ask before tying the knot, and how an understanding of our sinful nature can lead to conflict resolution. For Harris's mere twentysomething years of life experience, his maturity and devotion to God are sincere evidence that he has indeed practiced what he has preached, resulting in a passionate relationship with the love of his life. --Jill Heatherly
2006-06-24 22:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by raflawy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like this person then why are you afraid to look at him? you ultimately want to date him and the ultimate goal of dating is marriage. do you want to marry a man you are intimidated by or are afraid to look at? maybe you should keep looking. when you find Mr. Right you will know b/c you will feel so natural around him. You will be able to just go right up and talk to this person like he's been your bffl. This person will allow you to act like yourself and this is a better person to marry. A good philosophy on marriage is that it is like "a sleepover with your best friend every night." would you really want to have a sleepover with this guy? if no then keep looking. if you could see yourself doing that then just looking at him or talking to him will be no big deal.
2006-06-25 05:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by mrwonton06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if her wants your attention look at him See what he does then. I have no idea why you have started liking him but I say if you want him to know you feel the same way why don't you go on top of your roof and look at him. Please don't smile at him that's how people get raped cause he sounds kinda crazy but then hey you like it. But don't make the first move unless its calling the police
2006-06-25 05:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by beauty30058 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best is to act fast and get to know him, because he could be one of two things (well, actually more), either a stalker, or the man of your dreams! But he could also become just a good friend. Stop postponing and react so that you can carry on, either with the man of your dreams on your side, or sidestepping a stalker! The sooner you know who this mystery man is, the better.
2006-06-25 05:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sunbeam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is "U" who like him and dont know whether he likes u, i guess u should go up to him and make the first move. guys like that sometimes. but if u wait, u may never know what could've happened.
sometimes taking a risk is better than not havin tried at all. but it depends on u, if u want him to make the first move(considering he doesnt) then u'll be waitin all ure life. :-D
2006-06-25 05:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by dimitrix_dmx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it were me I would smile back.. Then probably go over and introduce myself. But now days you have to really wonder, WHY is this guy watching you, yet never tried to meet you? I find it rather creepy
2006-06-25 05:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing around.. go over there and introduce yourself.. sheesh. Worst case is still better than glance tag from across the street.
2006-06-25 05:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by claymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have a feeling for him look at him pass a smile, if he smiles back.He also has feelings for u.The next day ask him to meet u and meet him.Just know what he does,his age everything..Tell him before its too late.just tell him and kiss him............I know it will be a wonderful moment after that.
2006-06-25 05:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think let him know that you also like him .I think if he doesn't dare to purpose you then you should purposed him and let him know how much you like him .If you are not able to do this then give some sing i hope he will also like you .Because if you not do this then may be its possible that he like some one else so be hurry oak
2006-06-25 06:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by tanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you posted this same question over 20 times already? How old are you?
2006-06-25 05:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Abstract 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋