Shall I stay away from six foot Suzy?

Question

After 3 years together I split up with 6 foot Suzy at new year, I took her to Venice and it all went wrong .Moods, posessiveness.and the like.
I went straight into another relationship with a singer who i'd spoken to when we had been together.Three months later Suzy sends me amazing sorry letter , breaks my heart,I get back with her ,things working out,then when she is helping me with paper work shes sees that I had been speaking to singer while we were still together and goes mental telling me that it all has been a lie.I cant convince her of the truth ,As of yesterday we are no longer together .Should as all my girl and boy friends say walk away .
Suzy has suffered with mood swings and night sweats.I love her very much but I cant go on feeling like this.

Answer 1

Love shouldn't be painfull or hard... loving a person who is prone to drama and is emotionally needy can be very draining and debilitating. I have been where you are too... and walking away was one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. You need to think about what you can accept and what you can't... if her needs are a constant burden then why should you have to live in that chaos? Leaving is painfull and it takes a long time to feel closure, but in the end it will have been the best thing for you to do. Life is hard enough without having to live in another person's emotional hell. I wish you all the best and hope that you choose a path that will give you what you need to be happy and connected with your own joy. Shalom.

Answer 2

1, How do you feel about her, really deep in your heart, is she worth fighting for.
2, Ask her how she feels about you, deep down in her heart.ask her 2b totally honest about her answer, not quick, just honest.

then base your decision on if you stay or if you walk away,

Dont listen to other people, they are not in your situation, you, and only you, have to make the choice.

ok so she called 6ft Suzi, is she 6ft and is that a problem, i dont think so.

mood swings, we all got mood swings, if you stay together try to find out the underlying source of them.

Night sweats, she may have nitemares or really bad dreams, they may even be the cause of her mood swings. Encourage her to talk about them.

with a name like Spitfire, you are a fighter, but is she worth the fight, only you can answer that my friend

Answer 3

Suzy clearly has a real problem that may indicate a medical condition. Although the night sweats could just be anxiety caused by jealousy and fear losing out to someone else. Until she gets herself sorted out I would suggest any long term relationship is doomed.

Answer 4

if you really love her you will put up with the mood swings all women are moody at some point you both could work this out if you both just sit down and talk about your concerns talking always helps in a relationship

Answer 5

stay away from 6 foot suzy

Answer 6

I would look at why you are good together and why not and weigh them all up. Do you love her and is she the one you want to spend your life with good luck and i hope you sort it out for the best and do the right thing

Answer 7

Over possessive and 6 ft of trouble. You know the answer.

Be happy

Answer 8

I think you should walk away because the trust in your relationship has been compromised. And if you don't have trust what do you have?

Answer 9

You have effectively described a bipolar personality. Perhaps you should add details.

Answer 10

only stay away if your 5 ft