Ladies, I always wanted to know, how do you react when a seemingly ugly person or any guy for that matter keeps on staring at you, at your body, how do you react to them? What if the guy is good looking, does your reaction change then ?
2006-06-24 20:21:13 · 13 answers · asked by lihd 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
ok, to be totally honest (since there were a couple total bs answers here), yes, my reaction would change. if i were physically attracted to a guy, him staring at me would be a sign that he was interested in me. from there he could ruin in in plenty of ways (being vain, being lewd, being an ignorant ***, having a girlfriend), but yes i would be flattered. having a guy i wasn't attracted to stare at me would make me feel awkward, because i don't like turning guys down and i would be nervous that he was going to approach me. there has to be some physical attraction for me to be in a romantic relationship with someone.
this is all assuming we're not talking literal drool. literal drool would pretty much kill his chances. so control your saliva!
2006-06-24 20:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by deviosity 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It is just a sign that this guy keens to look into outer beauty of a lady without ability to control himself. Whether he is handsome or ugly, it is just flattering to the lady but not really a good start for a good relationship.
2006-06-24 21:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by A. Francis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I freak when I'm the center of attention unless I've mentally prepared myself to be there ::: like when I go out dancing, and spend at least 1/2 half an hour in front of the mirror primping ... then I am pre-paired and expect the attention.
However, in normal social situations (Starbucks - Library - Market), I work very hard to be the "B" girl ... Good-looking, but not so good looking that it's disabling ... I hate to be stared at!!! Hate it - hate it - hate it. Even the good looking guys ... I get worried that I have spinach in my teeth, or worse ...
2006-06-24 20:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually just try to ignore the guys. If they're really old or gross then I probably give them a dirty look. My reaction doesn't really change too much if the guy is good looking, I still just ignore them.
2006-06-24 20:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Trisha84 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find it quite flattering usually. Every girl likes to be appreciated. If we didn't we wouldn't try with our looks etc. Sure, we are a little more flattered if the guy is hot, just like a guy would be stoked if a hot girl started sleezing on to him. And I hope you don't mean literally drooling lol that would be slightly scary.
2006-06-24 20:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by King Julian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have ignored it before, and I have even blared some before-it depends on how uncomfortable they have made me feel. One person, a friend of my x did it only when I wasn't looking, strange but probably knew I'd blare him...
was caught staring at me frequently by ALL my kids, and they told me. I have brought my kids up to be straight forward like me, they aren't scared of speaking their minds :D:D:D.....one of them said "Why do you keep staring at my mum?". He didn't know where to put his face. From then on he didn't know where to look and everytime he was seen looking at me my kids said the same thing, poor guy! HAHAHAHA!
But it does make a woman feel uncomrtable.
Most of the time I was blind to it, or just ignored it-rise above it but my x couldn't do the same.
A really funny story in my archive of memories..
I hadn't long had my forth child and my x was working on a pier. He was a very jealous man and those days I was very wary of upsetting him but also loved him and wanted to surprise him by going up to the pier. Somebody had taken the kids so I was by my self. I was wearing a green maternity dress but had put a belt around it and it looked good-think i was skint actually and couldn't afford summer clothes. Well I went on the pier and saw my husband at the time and he was VERY moody with me although I went to a lot of trouble to see him. He demanded I left the pier and never ever came back on to it again. Did my head in.
6 months later...
he says the day I went on the pier all the men were running around saying "Have you seen the woman with the green dress on?" all the workers were gathering up to see this woman who was on the pier.
My husband was one of them eagerly waiting for this woman....
For that woman to be ME!!
I found it quite flattering but he caused a lot of trouble over that and it took me 6 months to wait why he'd banned me even from taking the kids to the pier.
2006-06-24 20:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy was hott then i would be happy!! i would probably go and talk to him, but if the guy was like seriously ugly then i would be disgusted!! who would want an ugly guy staring at a gorgeous girl like me!!?? lol But literally drooling is just gross!!! if i saw any guy like REALLY drooling even if he was hot i would be grossed out!! so ya, there's your answer! lol
2006-06-24 20:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My reaction doesn't change, regardless of whether they are good looking or ugly. It's flattering, but at the same time, it makes me feel uncomfortable.
2006-06-24 20:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Monika Lewinskeeze 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he drools then he must be suffering from rabies and ought to be taken to the local hospital or dog pen.
2006-06-24 20:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking about *literal drool*? Because that is NOT cool. Not cool at all...
2006-06-24 20:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by rebelduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋