They require a man extra caring and sensitive when it suits them--- and yet be hard cold and logical when it supports them --- They want the man to be able to support them, yet dont want to feel they owe anything and they are equal. -- They want to play games and vent-- yet are disgusted when we do the same. --- They want to be in control of sex and dictate the relationship-- yet are unhappy when we are too agreeable--- They thrive off of society's system with the men doing the chasing without deterant- yet as soon as the relationship starts they expect us to be fulfilled and content with the relationship in which they themselves valued more than we >>> are they worth it? What do they do that provides equal value for what they take
2006-06-24 19:59:24 · 15 answers · asked by Airtight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-- They want to infuse the "chase" by perpertrating small lies and hiding their true feelings or inclinations in an effort to keep your interest---- yet when the relationship begins, they expect whole heartedly that YOU be forthright, altruistic and above all truthfull to a fault disclosing everything with her feeligns in consideration
2006-06-24 20:13:48 · update #1
"U guys r the same way, It's not like it's just girls. I guess both of us just deal with it."
No we're not, and you know it. Outside of sex name me one thing that we specifically need a woman for? Then after that go ahead and name all of the problems yall cause. ---- and weigh the two
2006-06-25 01:28:56 · update #2
The fact is, you are dealing with the wrong Continent. You need to try South America or Asia. You would not have many women who behave like that. they are more like the good women of your grand father's time. They know how hard you work to provide and they WANT to cook for you and keep your home tidy. And they do not feel like slaves for doing it. Your problem is you are looking at Yankee girls. Most of them, are not worth the effort.
2006-06-24 22:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty frustrated. You may be expecting some type of ideal behavior from women that doesn't exist. Women are people and unfortunately many people are selfish and will use what they have to jerk you around if it suits them. Nice guys expect that being nice should be given extra respect...WRONG.
Don't stop being nice but realize that this is about sex and competition and women will take everything you give them without any reciprocation because you haven't learned to dance.
2006-06-25 03:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ben Jammin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very cynical, man. I suppose I could ask the same about men, but why bother? Most of what you say is stereotyped and I disagree with a lot of it, at least for myself. So quit dwelling on this question, and find someone who is worth it to you. Or don't. I really don't care that much.
2006-06-25 03:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kalika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've been dating the wrong women. This is the most stereotypical depiction of women in general I've seen in a long time.
Be thankful that your father didn't have the same opinion of women or you wouldn't be asking this question right now.
In short, yes...women are worth it.
2006-06-25 03:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some no but some of us yes,it depends who your with and i can see by what you write that that is exactly how most women are but i can say that there are women out there who are not like how you described and i am cetainly not one you described,i give my all 110% to my man and i dont dictate nothing i understand how he should be treated and he gets to have a say not just me,some women most are not worth it but there are some of us who are worth more than the million jewels in the world
2006-06-25 03:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and MEN want mary poppins and betty crocker but they dont wanna help with the dishes and they want jan bradey and alice the "maid" yet they want us to work a 40 hour week and bust our balls so we can run home and listen to f'n baseball on the t.v or carry plates of food back and forth for them ....they say they want a "lady" yet we catch them looking at trailer trash ho's in pornos or nasty sleezy magazines, they claim they are faithful , yet they googley eye every other woman they come in contact with...I SAY SCREW GUYS....YOU"RE the ones that isnt worth the time effort or trouble..
2006-06-25 03:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, r guys really worth it!? they sit on their asses and think girls need to do everything like cook, clean,work, and crap that. and they're so perverted. U guys r the same way, It's not like it's just girls. I guess both of us just deal with it.
2006-06-25 03:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading ur question i came to a conclusion tht u never understand a women and can never understand them.....
I think u r not worth to understand women.......
2006-06-25 03:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have chosen the wrong women to go out with.
Change your search criteria. We are not all the same.
2006-06-26 06:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah they r worth it we all have some kinda drama in out lives but u jus gotta deal wit it n keep ya head up
2006-06-25 03:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by damademan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋