he says my kids r chaos and my life is inconvienant and he says he cant handle it but we have been together a long time and we were friends before we were a couple so he knew about them he used to watch them for me when i didnt have a babysitter way back when we were friends my q is should i wait on him to change his mind or move on b cause of diff work schedules we only see each other once a week and i really want more for myself than that but i dont know what to do
2006-06-24 19:47:39 · 7 answers · asked by skinny hot chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm people change. At first he may find it is sweet helping u with your children but now he may be thinking they r a chore. Maybe u shld do something to salvage your love,. spend try to spend more time together , with juz the 2 of u...
2006-06-24 20:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by serious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is one relationship you have been in too long. By all means dump him before he gets convenient with you and the kids again. He gave you a good reason to forget about him and I would certainly take him up on it. Three years is long enough to see his true colors.
2006-06-24 20:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all its not right to live with someone your not married too, its a sin. People that do that dont feel "comitted" to each other and dont give a dam about anything...
2006-06-24 19:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not your soal mate or your waiting true love he is now merely an aquaintance,you need to move on and be free to really find your one true love who will love you and your kids and life will not be a hassle for him maby a challenege as all kids are but he will love them and you no different
2006-06-24 19:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't like women with bagagge, except for sex. So he is using you for sex, and not dealing with all the extra bagagge you have.
2006-06-24 19:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's right.
once a week really sucks.
2006-06-24 19:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-24 19:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Vis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋