he keep on txting me to have a dinner date with him,im afraid he will court me...what will i do.?
2006-06-24 19:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by gwyn_41 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is fine since he is no longer your superior / boss. You are not crossing any lines... The only problems I can see with this is that he could become your boss again with being transferred... the other is that other teachers may think you have 'pull' or getting favores but this would be strictly in their minds....
2006-06-24 19:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nitrox Frogy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him - refuse the dinner date. Don't say that you are busy because that will let him be able to choose other dates and you won't be able to back out. Just say that "Sorry I cannot have the dinner date with you" Don't provide a reason unless he asks. If he does tell him the truth or something aroudn it "It does not feel right and I stand my ground when I say so. Sorry"
If you like him - even if it doesn't work out, your profession and job will not suffer consequences as he was your former boss.
If you like him as a friend, perhaps you can say "Great. Just a friends night out." or "That sounds good. Is it okay if I bring my other friends also. We can have like a group hanging out. I really need some off time just to hang out with friends. Is it okay?" :)
2006-06-25 02:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having the dilemma because you have the preconceived image of him being the principal and not the man. If you can see the man and just understand that the principal is his job not his image then you can better make a judgement.
2006-06-25 02:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Big Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have too ask then you are considering which in turn means YOU WANT TO ANYWAY. The one thing you can't do in life is play mind games with yourself learn to know you then you will be able to answer a question as simple as this for yourself
2006-06-25 02:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by cell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he no longer is in your place of employment, if he no longer is work superior that is, than it is OK to ask you. You need to either accept the date or explain to him it ain't happening! When you say court you, are you referring to dating? you asked 'what will i do?', well? What will you do?
PEACE
EdE
2006-06-25 02:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by ede1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he hot? would you want a relationship with him? is he a player type? will he be discreet? or will he talk about it at work? do you actually like him? think about all of this, if you do go for it and set some ground rules so it does not get akward at work.
2006-06-25 02:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Misch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are no longer working together, it wouldn't matter if you went on a date.
if you think you might hit it off, go for it. Besides, what's the worst that could happen??
2006-06-25 02:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by queenbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? He is not your boss now. What do you have to lose if you like him go on the date.
2006-06-25 02:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by jsbrads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i would hate to be in your class you cant even talk proper english. where did u get your degree. i guess that proves that teachers aren't as ecucated as they use to be and why they sleep with their students
2006-06-25 02:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by the brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not dip it into the company ink
2006-06-25 02:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by John Archer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋