ok i really like dis girl and i want to kiss her, we arent going out we're jus good friends...i no she likes me but idk how much......how should i approach or when is a good time to kiss her???????
2006-06-24 19:11:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you do do NOT tell this girl you like her because this will scare her, and she'll never want to go out with you. The best way to tell if this girl likes you is to observe her body laungage. Next time you talk to her observe what she does. If she:
1.) Makes good eye contact, and smiles a lot.
2.) Her eyes dialate (get bigger) when shes talking to you. Her eyes will dialte naturally if it is dark outside.
3.) Plays with her hair often when talking to you.
4.) Trys to touch you often while talking to you.
5.) Sinks her head into her shoulders like shes shrugging, but in a shy way.
6.) Reveals her palms to you somehow while talking to you.
7.) Bows her head while talking to you, and looks up at you with her eyes.
8.) Gets pidgen toe'd - she'll bend one toe behing the other foot.
9.) Maintains uncomforatlbe amounts of eye contract.
10.) Matches your suttle rythmic tones of your body, and the tone of your voice.
11.) Since your her friend she talk about you with her friends, so basically all her friends will know you even if you don't know them.
If she shows a majority of these signs chances are good that she likes you. If you are friends it would be best to get out of the friend zone as soon as possible. You can do this by not listening to her "boy troubles", not doing things for her like her boy-toy, make yourself a challenge to her if she wants you do something while not doing it; but in a playful joking way (for example if she ask you to get her a glass of water tell her 'you have legs you lazy person! haha'), and don't get girly with her if you do already.
Also, flirt with her more by giviing her complaments, joking with her kindda in a mean way but nicely (for example - "you know you like me, huh?"), touching her sometimes then not toucing her for other times, and stuff like that.
If she is receptive to the flirting, exchange phone numbers if you haven't done so already, then ask her to do something one day. Start dating her, and after three dates ask her out if things are working out. If you do things right she'll kiss you alright. ;-)
2006-06-24 20:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really think about how she would feel after you tell her ur feelings because its not all of how u feel its hers too meaning that what if she maynot want 2 kiss u just yet then what just give her time and ull never know she might eventually kiss u when shes ready so dont rush into things because it might hurt ur friendship just a little bit so just talk to her about the way u feel and the fact that u want to become more than just friends
2006-06-25 02:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoshona makes a good point. Respect her, find out of she feels the same way first, and it might not hurt to ask her if you can kiss her first. She might like that u r being so respectful of her body and feelings!
2006-06-25 02:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by chrissiecat85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kiss her right away. TALK to her. Respect her!! Tell her how you feel. Express to her what you feel inside and ask her to tell you what she feels. Keep the lines of communication open and that will develop into the best possible real relationship ever that will last and be meaningful instead of empty!!
2006-06-25 02:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Shoshana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the two of you are alone. You have to be close enough to make your move, then go for it. The worst to happen is she slugs you and tells all your friends the next day what a creep you and how she kicked your ***. That pain isn't as bad as regret, so go for it.
2006-06-25 02:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her on a friendly date to a movei or something... && just have a good time laughing and what not... By the end of your friendly date just ask her what she thought about being more then just friends oor you can forget the asking part and look into her eyes just tell her how wonderful she looks and kiss her... then later on you can bring in the question. ... now you can answer my questions please.
2006-06-25 02:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by ash6lei2a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, kiss isn't the right choice if you are not have any relationship.
try to get that relationship first and than ask her politely if you want to kiss her
2006-06-25 02:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by red boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe wait and see if she likes u a bit more and then just go for it but just make it a small one at first so she isnt too blown away by it
2006-06-25 02:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk before kissing... lead up to it... if you jump into a kiss you may get maced! Be upfront... be honest... be clear... be brave.
2006-06-25 02:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by WebXen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't ya just ask her .."hey, i'd really like to kiss you, can i" if she says yes, then go ahead. if she says no, respect the boundary she has given you.
2006-06-25 02:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋