My husband did not get me a xmas present, I have to beg him to get me clothes,(I'm a stay at home mom), lies to me, checks out other women, tells me I'm crazy, called me a porker when I was pregnant, told me I needed to get a job 2 weeks after I had a baby, hasn't gotten me a wedding ring, took me to Buff wild wings for our 1 yr. anniversary, acts ashamed of me, and I want a divorce. My hatred of him is eating me alive. How do I just let it go?
2006-06-24 19:03:57 · 8 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want a divorce than get one, if you want to stay in the relationship go ahead. It's no skin off my back though it seems to be yours.
2006-06-24 19:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also the other thing is stop expecting. Is his income enough for him to get gifts. Check it out. You both can make a good family if you both understand each other and help each other.
May be he is looking for a support from you.
Talk to him.
2006-06-25 02:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing will happen until you move out and start a new life.
you will need strength to get through the divorce, your hatred will help with that.
2006-06-25 02:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some counseling... and if that doesn't work, take some time apart.
There's a good chance, nothing personal, that you like being in such a hurtful relationship... or else you would have left by now.
2006-06-25 02:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Todd F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend, you are on the right way at least. kick the asshole the hell out, you deserves much better! use your brain, get over the fool, peace and love from Norway
2006-06-25 02:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by thefallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By letting him go and getting on with your own life.
2006-06-25 02:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by lucygoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awful you need to pray to God and he will take care of the rest. ^_^
2006-06-25 02:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out do it for your kids
2006-06-25 03:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋