i'm 27, and i work as a phone sex actress. my mom doesn't know, but i know if i told her, she'd be totally against it, bc she's a devout southern baptist. should i go ahead and tell her what i've been working as for over 2 yrs, or is honesty not always the best policy?
2006-06-24 18:45:25 · 20 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh gosh no. Just tell her you're a telemarketer or something.
2006-06-24 18:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by lucygoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i were on your shoes, i will probably quit before telling my mom...she will tell you to quit anyway and mind you mother knows best...phone sex actress though not there physically for sex is still qualified contributor for immorality, we are here to live once then do it the right way...but if are you greedy enough for the money and find yourself dumb to qualify for a decent job then just go ahead, cater those losers out there!
2006-06-25 01:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Freddie Kruger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that it will hurt her, and if you are ready to quit the job if she tells you to do so, and you can get another better job for a living, there is no harm in telling her. You have to look within yourself and ask whether your job is ethically right or wrong. If your own conscience tells you it is wrong. Quit it and tell your mother. Otherwise just keep mum as you have done for the last two years.
2006-06-25 02:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by nandi_1950 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I'd keep it a secret. My thought is always why hurt the person against what your doing. Does she need to know?
2006-06-25 01:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by korngoddess1027 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell. It is none of her business how you support yourself. Now if she tells you that she will pay you for not work there..... well, that is a different story
2006-06-25 01:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by oveningskor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the subject comes up, tell her you work as a telemarketer.
2006-06-25 02:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dumb job, leave it and look for another job you dont have to be afraid to tell ppl about.
2006-06-27 04:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Gal in red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her. That way she can tell others what u r doing (a lie) sincerely without feeling like a liar.
2006-06-25 04:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to tell her if she isn't asking, but do tell her, gently, rather than lying if she does ask. Or you can be intentionally vague. ("I work for a phone service").
2006-06-25 01:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by totalx21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A phone sex actress????? Well thats a new one to me....
2006-06-25 01:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ron T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋