2006-06-24 18:25:30 · 15 answers · asked by k_wayne_g_32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a very difficult situation for both parties.It's certainly a one way story.When you love someone you just can't be 'just friends'.You can't stop your heart from asking for a reciprocation of its all feelings,which never comes from other side.Because they are just incapable of giving this to you.And it's only hurtful,unless you are a monk!Stop hurting yourself anymore,keep a distance.Time is a good healer.
2006-06-24 18:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by sera_sear21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some advice it's never good to Become boyfriend and girlfriend with ur best-friend because if things don't work out Ur friendship will never be the same again every time Ur around that person it will feel uncomfortable. And if ur friend doesn't love you back thats to bad you cant force her to love you. And you brought this upon yourself but I do understand that when you fall in love it can be overwhelming. I recommend you try and get over ur friend ( easier said then done) Go out meet new people it will help you get over her.
2006-06-24 18:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Establish some distance for a while. If you already had this discussion and she told you that she does not like you then let her know that you need some time to forget about her in that way but that she is still your friend. Also try to meet other possible love interests. Also make sure that you are not expecting more than her friendship in return for all the nice things that you do for her.
2006-06-24 18:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by confused69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, does she know you're in love with her? If so, did she just say she doesn't feel the same way? Is she dating anyone? I honestly believe that you two are best friends for a reason. If it were meant to be anything more it would be.
2006-06-24 18:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by FoxyMama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a painful kind of love - does she know how you feel? Has she told you that she does not have those type of feelings for you? If your answer is yes - you do not have many options if you want to keep her as your friend, you have to accept it as it is - if it is too painful - tell her and take some time away from the relationship
2006-06-24 18:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by MS L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need something else to occupy your time right now. You can't change how she feels but you can change how you feel. Start by putting some distance between you.. but tell her first, so she will not be hurt that you two aren't spending as much time together.
2006-06-24 18:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is your friend and the fact that you ahve more feelings for her than she does you, is your problem.Talk to her but if she dosent feel the same, you need to let her be.Do you want to lose her friendship over it?if it hurts too bad, you may have no choice.
2006-06-24 18:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh it does hurt. but you cant force someone to love you. yr lucky that you have a good friend like her. if you dont want the heart ache stop seeing her. otherwise find someone you can share yr heart with
2006-06-24 18:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her for a while.....Then make her jealous with another girl....They always want what they can't have.
If all else fails find a new friend and don't look back at her because you can't be around her like that....That is a position of weakness
2006-06-24 18:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by rache001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try not to spend so much time with her. and go on a date with another girl. she may care about you more than even she knows and if you date another girl, even casually it could change how she looks at you also.
2006-06-24 18:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Applebottom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋