i meat a guy at a club and ive been spending tim with him and he told me he likes me and today was his birthday i didn't get to see him but my question is should i trust his words?
2006-06-24 17:53:35 · 20 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he opens his mouth
2006-06-24 17:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by George_Orwin_Jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, always trust your instinct. this is gonna make me sound crazy but we are more psychic then we think.
Also here are some tips on how to spot a liar:
Here's the scoop from Greg Hartley, interrogation expert and author of How to Spot a Liar. First, know this: liars stress out trying to keep their story straight. Which means they often do things that can tip you off. So, ask them something they'd have no reason to lie about, like "Where's the nearest Starbucks?" Once you've seen their normal speech patterns and eye movements - ask what you really want to know, and watch for these clues that they may be lying:
* Their voice becomes higher pitched because stress causes extra tension in their vocal cords.
* Liars also pause a split-second longer than usual before they answer a question.
* And they "self-comfort" more often like, stroking their beard, or fidgeting with jewelry.
* The fourth way to tell someone's lying: they blink less often, and their pupils get larger.
* Also, a liar's body movements become jerky, and they switch positions or change topics fast.
* And the final "tell" that someone's lying: they use fewer first-person pronouns, like "I" or "me".
Instead they shift attention and blame elsewhere by saying "It was" or "They wanted to." If you'd like to go further, the book is: How to Spot a Liar by Greg Hartley.
2006-06-25 00:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably were not at a club to gain a new conversation buddy! Do with him what you need to and get over it. What type of guys do you think hang out in clubs?
2006-06-25 00:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are good that your instincts have already answered this one for you. If you have to ask, the chances are good that feel some doubt. Take some time and see how he interacts with others. It's easy to tell with some fellas if they're lying - there lips are moving.
2006-06-25 00:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rarely trust words when I first meet someone. Read his actions more. Do they match up to his words at all? He says he likes you....so is he doing stuff to prove he actually likes you? Or are you clinging on b/c well, it's nice to hear the shet even if a part of you thinks it's all a ploy. Listen to your judgement...us women ain't as stupid as we act...most of you all just don't damn know better to stand up for yourselves and listen to yourselves and you fall ploy in men's games. Eh.
2006-06-25 00:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we only lie when we Have to it's like breathing soon it becomes a habit it starts out innocent enough "Honey does this dress make me look fat?" "No of course not ...it makes you look hot!" Pretty soon we find that worked out well and then we start lying on job applications, and to the IRS, and if we get REALLY good at it we become Republicans and lie to ourselves...that's when you know you're one of the best liars ever.
2006-06-25 01:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by fun97501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the body language. the lie if they can't look you in the eye, if the shuffle there feet, or even if they look you in the eye, they will hold a freeze waiting to see if they are getting away with it.
2006-06-25 00:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to use the spell checker, about grammar & usage, and that's no lie.
2006-06-25 01:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Cardinal Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy likes you..wouldn't he want you to be at his birthday? to show you off to his friends and stuff..unless he doesn't want you to show up at his b-day cus he has some girls that he doesn't want you to know about..if i liked a girl..i would want ot spend time with her..and want her around ..especially to special events like my b-day. honestly..u can't tell if someone is lying to you if they are good at it..well you can..but it will be very hard you know..but ya. if you liked someone wouldnt' you want to spend time with them and want them at ur b-day?
2006-06-25 00:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life everybody Plays each other, that's all that ANYBODY ever dose. We all play part's.....it's in his Eyes.
2006-06-25 00:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy Munchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if when saying something he smiles too much or laughs or looks away then its a definat lye
2006-06-25 00:55:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋